I feel the exact same way with my relationship. I do love him but sometimes I freak out when says things about our future and it makes me question our relationship. I wish I had better advice, someone here told me just say simple things and thank your partner when they say sweet things to you and maybe doing things when it comes to actions rather then words. For your partners sake, you know. Sorry if it doesn’t help, but for what it’s worth I’m glad someone understands what I’m going through too 😅
Yeah this is so hard. But I’m going to try doing that, thank you
I’m getting married in 13 days and one intrusive thought I got a month ago has totally de-railed my life. For the past month I have been questioning EVERYTHING. “You don’t love him anymore.” “You’re not attracted to him anymore.” “Look at that guy. He’s attractive. You’d probably like to be with him. You don’t love your fiancé anymore” it’s debilitating. Literally was head over heals in absolute awe of my fiancé. Not a single doubt in my mind until that split second thought screwed up my thinking. The future I saw so clearly with him seems blurry and I’m having panic attacks even thinking about leaving the house. I KNOW he’s the guy for me. I know I’m supposed to marry him and I know I would be hurting myself way worse in the long run if I lost him. The ocd thoughts are just so loud. I feel like I’m losing my mind.