My boyfriend wants answers to how I feel because I’ve been so uncertain with my feelings due to my ROCD. And I fear I’m not sure if it’s all ROCD. I don’t want to lie to him about my feelings since I’m unsure right now because of my instructive thoughts but I have to respect his feelings. Really not sure what to do in this situation. I love him and see my future with him but my mind always seems to find a problem with him and makes me think this may not be what I want.

StormOCD

262d ago

I feel the exact same way with my relationship. I do love him but sometimes I freak out when says things about our future and it makes me question our relationship. I wish I had better advice, someone here told me just say simple things and thank your partner when they say sweet things to you and maybe doing things when it comes to actions rather then words. For your partners sake, you know. Sorry if it doesn’t help, but for what it’s worth I’m glad someone understands what I’m going through too 😅

ocd_

262d ago

Yeah this is so hard. But I’m going to try doing that, thank you

Jeanie12

262d ago

I’m getting married in 13 days and one intrusive thought I got a month ago has totally de-railed my life. For the past month I have been questioning EVERYTHING. “You don’t love him anymore.” “You’re not attracted to him anymore.” “Look at that guy. He’s attractive. You’d probably like to be with him. You don’t love your fiancé anymore” it’s debilitating. Literally was head over heals in absolute awe of my fiancé. Not a single doubt in my mind until that split second thought screwed up my thinking. The future I saw so clearly with him seems blurry and I’m having panic attacks even thinking about leaving the house. I KNOW he’s the guy for me. I know I’m supposed to marry him and I know I would be hurting myself way worse in the long run if I lost him. The ocd thoughts are just so loud. I feel like I’m losing my mind.