I kinda feel like I'm not really attracted to a person unless I've hung out with them, and kinda know their personality.. My brains telling me that just means I'm gay, but is their a name for that?? Or, is it normal?

i have found so many guys attractive until they've opened their mouths lol so i guess it's normal? like yeah looks are the first thing you notice but in the long run they fade away and all that's left is their personality and mentality. i definitely would never live with someone who's beliefs don't correlate with mine. but just for clarification, do you identify as straight?

You might want to look into demisexuality, where you don’t have sexual attraction until you have an emotional connection with the person