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Absolutely! A pretty common misconception about this theme is that it only afflicts hetero people, and sometimes that can be used as a stick to beat heteros with this theme, as people who don’t understand OCD often think that the ‘fear of being gay’ is masked homophobia (which almost always isn’t the case). This sounds to me like a typical case of SOOCD. You had come to terms and were comfortable with being a lesbian, and because OCD always attacks what we value, it attached to that part of yourself, and made you doubt it. OCD is a biochemical issue where the sufferer can’t recognise false thoughts, as false. When the question ‘do I like guys?’ pops into your head, you’re unable to recognise it as truly false, so the mind starts ruminating and ruminating to the point where the whole issue seems extremely blurry and confusing. Someone without OCD may have gotten that thought, but almost unconsciously they are able to instantaneously recognise it as false. You don’t have to believe every stupid thing you think!
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Yes ocd can come in SOOO many ways
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Why am I like this...?
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@Hey I'm Sky Absolutely nothing! I’m queer and have pocd as my main theme and I hate life sm.
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@Anonymous321 It feels like I dont even know who I am anymore ,it makes me think that I'm a thing that I'm really not
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@Hey I'm Sky Me too I know how u feel. If u EVER need to talk I’m here
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Yup sounds exactly like ocd!! It’s absolute hell
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Bro if it is then it's horrible
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@Hey I'm Sky Yeah!! But there’s hope! Faster you get into therapy, the faster you learn how to cope! I’m straight and have super bad so-ocd, and real event ocd. Wishing you the best of luck!!
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@hate_ocd.123 Thanks 😊
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My thoughts
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@Ope I went to the urgency today
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@Ope Yeah but now I have to go to other hospital
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@Ope Thanks friend😄
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I am a 18 year old masc lesbian with a loving girlfriend for 1 year, and I have been lesbian for almost my whole life and I have never been attracted to men in any way. flash to my past, My ex girlfriend who used to identify as a lesbian had cheated on me with a man. Recently I saw this tiktok of this masc lesbian turn straight and my friends and girlfriend made jokes I am going to turn straight for my male best friend. My male best friend came over and he’s a great guy but I do not want him in any way. when him and i were hanging out my mind threw in a thought it was “What if i like him”, i came back home and i had the worst panic attack and i felt so sick, i cried and i cried. ever since that day I have been struggling with intrusive thoughts, i don’t want a man in any way, and i feel comfortable as a lesbian but these thoughts won’t stop and they become worse when i see people say being lesbian is a phase or that i haven’t met the right guy or i’ll change in the future. i just want these thoughts to stop, i don’t want to stop being a lesbian ever, i love women so much and i just want all of this to be over with. i do not want a man in any way and im tired of my thoughts doubting myself and i hate the “what ifs”, I just want to be my old self, I want to be happy with my girlfriend.
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hi i’m a lesbian! and i have known im a lesbian for a really long time and i have a sweet girlfriend of 1 year. it all started when i saw this masc lesbian come out as straight, after that i had my guy friend over and he’s a sweet guy and he was flirting with me (he didn’t know i was gay) im not sure but i panicked and my brain froze and i was like “do i like him”, ever since my brain has been over worked 24/7 for 2 months now and it’s spiralling constantly. im trying to control it but all these thoughts are so disgusting and my brain tries to put him and i in scenarios that make me uncomfortable and i feel panic and i hate it. i have always been comfortable being a lesbian and i still am comfortable as a lesbian, but i dislike these thoughts i have about him and men and i want it to be over. i do not want to experiment with men even tho my brain is telling me i do, i find it disgusting and i dread it, i have a sweet girlfriend and i want to be with her forever, i do not imagine anything with any men and i hate these thoughts. im scared of becoming bisexual/straight one day and i hate hearing sexuality is fluid. its a whole mix of comphet and so-ocd
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Hey guys so I have been suffering with sexual ocd due to the fact that I don’t feel that romantic spark with him anymore, I love him and I know I do but I get to much in my thoughts thinking about why can’t I feel that anymore what has changed what if I don’t wanna be with anymore I’ve been with him for 4 years and at first I think it was ROCD but now I started thinking what if I’m into girls now I’ve always been the type to say oh a girl is so pretty or I like this about her but now I feel like every time I see a girl I’m like do I see myself in a relationship with her oh she’s pretty oh I like her voice do I find it attractive and sometimes I do !!! Which is killing me I feel disgust thinking about because what if I secretly am no shame to people who are my sister herself is but I just feel wierd because I wanna be with my husband and feel happy there not with a girl and feel like a man because I see myself in the mirrior and I’m like do I myself being a man do I look lesbian? Do I act lesbian or bi? What if secretly I wanna be a man or I imagine myself being a man in a relationship with a pretty girl and idk what to think
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