- Date posted
- 3y
- Date posted
- 3y
So confused as I was just told I had ocd and I wasn’t gay by my therapist. How come someone liked the comment 😥
- Date posted
- 3y
That not the case I have been suffering with this now for year, and I am getting better, some days better then other but I know this is my mind just playing tricks. I am not trying to figures this out anymore it’s the best way
- Date posted
- 3y
So why would an ocd therapist say this then. Can any therapist on here share there thoughts
- Date posted
- 3y
No one know and can tell you if your gay or not not sure I am not, a therapist but from my point of view ,it just feels like mind games, i think the best way to beat or get better you need to stop figure it out and just get on with life i under stand that it is hard but that what ocd loves keeping the person miserable
- Date posted
- 3y
But over 8 therapists have said this is OCD and I am not Gay
- Date posted
- 3y
I don’t know the answer to that unfortunately,if you have only had this for a year or two and been with women and never thought of this before, I think it is safe to say you definitely have ocd but, like I said try not to figure it out just sit with the thoughts and don’t do any compulsions say maybe maybe not I don’t need to figure this out right now.
- Date posted
- 3y
This has destroyed my 10 year relationship with a women. So does having ocd mean this is not true then if you say it’s safe to say I have OCD.
- Date posted
- 3y
It’s doing the same to my relationship too I would say so yeah it’s just your own mind playing tricks with you
- Date posted
- 3y
So does ocd mean this is not true as I have been to see my therapist who said having ocd means this is not true and they wouldn’t be sending to me a ocd clinic if I was gay
- Date posted
- 3y
Yeah it’s not true just your ocd messing with you
Related posts
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 24w
I’ve had so many moments of clarity with my OCD that I love my boyfriend and I’m beyond willing to go through this to be better and be with him. in the back of mind I’ve in a way known I was at least somewhat sexually attracted to women (I’m a woman) since the start of the ocd it was always like “okay. Fine, but I don’t want to date a girl” I only just realized this after the ocd started, I never really argued with this. my ocd has always revolved around if I’m romantically interested in women and not men. I’ve done so many compulsions through this year and a half and 9 times out of 10 have come to the conclusion that I don’t want to be with a woman romantically. I always end up feeling like I know I love my boyfriend. But the doubts don’t stop about whether I want to spend my life with a woman instead, my heart literally breaks to think of not being with my bf and imagining him with someone else. I don’t want to be with a woman I know deep down somewhere underneath the anxiety that that’s not what I want. It doesn’t feel natural for me, unfulfilling. I want to tell my boyfriend about the possible sexual attraction to women (ik it’s still ocd related) but I’m scared that once I tell him, I’ll realize that I actually do want to be with women and not with him. Ugh I’ve spent hours today ruminating about this after being solid in my commitment with him for a little while, I’m stuck in this loop and idk how to get out right now
- Date posted
- 19w
Sorry long post. Anyone feel like now they’re just in extreme denial. Like when I was little I noticed guys more than girls in movies and was more drawn to them. I remember changing my mindset to switch that. 98%of my life has been straight until recently. I felt drawn to some guys but never thought of it sexually. Always had girl crushes dreams and porn. Now I watch porn and I feel like straight takes longer and then I go and watch gay porn and feel nothing until I tell myself it’s two attractive dudes and love is love and imagine physical sensations and then it hits like suddenly. Like I have to convince myself it’s alright. Then when I try again I can do all that but feel nothing and then straight porn works. Idk if it’s just getting a fix or the first time works with anything or what but it’s confusing. On top of that I’ve felt girl relationships including my wife maybe miss something and a guy maybe matches that feeling that but then I feel like I’d be missing something without a girl or my wife. Idk I’ve had some rough times in life with male figures in my life but idk. I feel like I have to convince myself more and more that I’m straight even more than the first time I dealt with this. Can someone relate? Please
- Date posted
- 15w
So I’ve talked to a couple of gay people and they all told me the same thing. They ALWAYS knew they liked guys and they have ever gotten aroused by a woman in their life. In fact they told me that they always found a woman’s body disgusting. Looking back in my life I’ve been attracted to girls for as long as I can remember even before puberty. All my fantasies were about girls and I can’t remember a time where I felt the same for a guy (because it never happened). At the end I can still get aroused by women and you can clearly see how much stupid this obsession about being gay is. Gay people can’t get instinctively aroused by a woman and like it. Groinal responses and sensations don’t mean anything because they simply do not bring joy or a feeling of desire. Instead they bring panic. I once got a groinal when “testing my reactions” and I was sitting there crying like my life is over. That’s not how genuine attraction works and no one has woken up one day feeling different and no one has been secretly gay and never noticed it and spent his whole life into women instead.
Be a part of the largest OCD Community
Share your thoughts so the Community can respond