- Username
- Gabe445
- Date posted
- 3y ago
i think its a big ocd trap, i feel this to and is one of the most scariest thing ever
too*
@gigigoode13 Yes it’s worst feel like hell
Oh dude same. All the time. Join the reassurance streak and try to not do compulsions!
Ok I’ll try and hope you can to
I have the same problem! Wondering if you want to do it is actually a compulsion which you need to resist! I’m struggling with it but I’m definitely learning at the same time. Just let the thoughts flow - don’t try to control them.
Hi Gabe was wondering how you were feeling today. I struggle with the same exact thing. I think StephRose is correct cause answering that question has led me down a spiraling rabbit hole. I didn’t realize it was a compulsion
Try to be uncertain bro but it’s so hard somtime if feels so real but it was ok not good not bad how your day going bro everything ok
Yes it is difficult!
Hey bro! Just wanted to say hello and I was thinking about ya! Hope things are going well man!
It’s been a shity dad bro just has horrible thought of what if I like these thought and what if I don’t want them to go away freak me out bro but how your day going bro
Man I had a bad ERP exercise a month ago. (Did too much too early) So I been reeling from that. Just so you know I’ve had the same thoughts. I stopped paying attention to them and they went away.
I’ll keep that in mind bro and what do you do in erp
Well at the time I was reading a triggering article. I just wasn’t mentally prepared. Hey I do have a good exercise that’s really easy and good for starting out. Just make you a simple word list that has some mildly triggering words. You can read them or record them on your phone and listen to them. Do that all the time for a week then you can graduate to writing a script. Important thing is go at your pace and what you feel comfortable with.
Oh my god that would be helpful thank you bro
Absolutely dude!
Have you got any tips when you duot yourself
Yes…so for ERP to work properly you have to sit with the anxiety. For example as you repeatedly read your word list you have to sit with any anxiety you may get. Don’t do any compulsions or tell yourself anything to calm yourself down. The idea is eventually over time your brain gets bored with it and learns it doesn’t bother you. But like I said start out small then build up. This is called building your hierarchy. As a matter of fact this app has a tool that will help you build your hierarchy. It also gives you some other ERP tools.
You need to do ERP for a couple of hours per day. ALSO, this is important. Since you have Pure-O you can do ERP with your bad thoughts/feelings. The thought itself is the exposure. Your job is the Respone Prevention. This means NO REASSURANCE, NO MENTAL CHECKING, NO GOOGLING, & NO RUMINATING! It’s difficult bruh!
Sound like hell
Beyond the what ifs - Does anyone else feel like their OCD tells them they have to be gay... I don’t want to be with a woman but it feels like I have to be gay. I’m trying to tell myself it’s OCD and that it’s a lie...but what if it isn’t? What if I’m lying to myself that I don’t want to be with a woman but I actually do?
Is it just me or does anyone else also doubt the fact that they have OCD even if they know for sure that they do have OCD and have been diagnosed various times??
I hate how my mind is making me doubt of my intentions when i clearly know that I don’t have any desires to act on my thoughts. It makes my intentions feel so uncertain, and sometimes it would even make me feel like if I wanted to act on my thoughts when I actually don’t, because I wouldn’t be doubting if I did. So since I feel my intentions so uncertain I need to come to an answer, and sometimes it is so damn hard to get that answer, which makes me anxious and disturbed. It would also make me think of my past like, how were you okay without having these thoughts? Or makes me think of my future like, will you be okay without these thoughts? So it would make me think that these thoughts are really desires and I won’t be okay unless I act on them. As horrible as it sounds. And I don’t know if someone gets this too but, it would also make me doubt my feelings. When my family tells me cute things like “I love you” and stuff, I would feel so bad, because my thoughts are towards them. So I would say “ily too” but I feel like an hypocrite saying it, or like I don’t mean it at all, so it makes me doubt if I really love them or not. This is all so overwhelming, and I have gone through so many disturbing and crazy thoughts, feelings and situations, that I don’t know if this might be OCD.
Share your thoughts so the Community can respond