I’m suffering from TOCD and I hate when people say “well, cis/straight people don’t question their sexuality/gender so you must be some part of the LGBTs” and that’s not how it works at all

Sexual Orientation OCD

well i know people who came out as bi/gay/pan... and then just clarified that they were in fact straight 

Yeah, exploring your sexuality and gender should be encouraged even if you conclude that you are straight or cis. I just really hate the “if you question at all that means you are”