Does anyone’s ROCD m Make you avoid all attractive people ? Also fear of developing feelings for someone else other than ur significant other ? Really struggling with this because I want to be with my bf but any time I talk to someone else who I think is good looking (no flirting at all) I instantly feel uncomfortable, and my brain goes into a whirlwind of “u like them” “u want to be with them” “u don’t like ur bf anymore” “you have a crush on them” “ur relationship is over” even when you don’t even know them/know they wouldn’t be good for you

Relationship OCD

anon222

Date posted: 4y

i’m sorry u are going through this, just remember to label those thoughts as ocd thoughts and try to let them pass ❤️

Animaniash

Date posted: 4y

I get this all the time. My boyfriend is the only one I want. Hes perfect for me in every way and I want to marry him in the future, but whenever I make a guy friend or talk to someone attractive, I get those exact thoughts too and it sucks and makes me feel like a terrible person 😭😞 it makes me not want to make any new boy friends or talk to any guy besides my boyfriend.

PotatoChip21

Date posted: 4y

Yes!! Me too!! And I’ll be enjoying time with my bf but then get a random thought “what if you were doing this with that other person instead” and I get so sad and distressed

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