I got engaged to my man this year, we’ve been together going on 5 years. He is amazing and we have this healthy, wonderful relationship. My OCD is sucking all my joy 😞 - I constantly have thoughts of “what if you’re wrong and he’s not the one? What if you guys get divorced someday? Is he the one? Does this anxiety mean he’s not?” Constant ocd and urges to seek reassurance and it’s miserable. I need hope that this will get better, I’m so afraid I’ll ruin what I have with my ocd.

Relationship OCD

Me too my relationship is amazing, but my insecurities/ocd is making it hell. :,(

Do you also suffer with the constant “am I sure they’re the one?” Thoughts? It’s wild how obsessive it is

@OCDSux-123 Yeah, these are super common with OCD. I also have the most healthy, wonderful relationship but am plagued by these feelings. 

@samantha This all has helped me so much realize it is my ocd and not truly my feelings!