cj24
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Anon1294Anon1294
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Yeah I feel like I’m forcing myself sometimes to be attracted. But then sometimes it’s effortless and I’ve been head over heels in love with the opposite sex. So I started figuring I’m in on the bisexual spectrum. It helps keep the anxiety away
BradOCDBradOCD
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I rekon I am probably bisexual. But that still doesn’t agree much with my OCD. I had had some sexual trauma when I first started having sex which made me do a lot of checking with other sexual partners. This obviously didn’t help with attraction. Something I’ve found through ocd is the need to just let yourself be present. And actually in doing this I have found sex a lot more pleasurable.
Anon1294Anon1294
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@BradOCD Yes same here!!! I find that I have a high standard of what I should be thinking… just let your mind flow and then you realize you’re enjoying sex with your partner
BradOCDBradOCD
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Yep! Like if I do it either turns into a man and I have to stop thinking. Or it just doesn’t feel right anymore
strawberry ice creamstrawberry i...
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for me too. It doesn’t feel right anymore and i feel disgusted
cj24cj24
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Ya ig just so difficult
cj24cj24
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This shit is so fucked up
cj24cj24
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I don't Wana be bisexual tho
Anon1294Anon1294
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Me either, but saying that in my head relieves anxiety. I really don’t tell anyone I’m bi, only my husband. And he insists that I’m probably straight lol. Think of it this way. We have OCD. Some people with OCD have contamination fears. They are CONVINCED they have germs on their hands, so they wash their hands over and over. If they had a microscope they’d probably check their skin obsessively. We’re CONVINCED we’re gay, even if we check a million times. We will never know 100%. So just roll with it and say whatever I guess I’m bi
Jenna OverbaughJenna Overbaugh
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- 3y
I guarantee so many other people can relate to your experience. You are not alone!
cj24cj24
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It doesn't feel like it seems like there aren't many people who go through this
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