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it’s just another one of ocd’s tricks to pull you back into the cycle. try doing some ERP with these fears.
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I can’t stop obsessing over the idea that I might have imagined he was a good person and was good to me and that some how now I’m seeing him for who he truly is
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@Anonymous i have rocd and my worries will flip flop like this too. you need to try to ground yourself which is easier said than done, and then focus on your erp. stay well my friend
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@ anonymous Okay thank you
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