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eoid
7d ago
  • "Pure" OCD
  • Relationship OCD

What should I do, if the idea of seeing him don't make me enthusiasts, but also I know that if I force myself to go out with him I would have fun? It's not that I don't want to go out with him but neither that I want to go out with him!

Redyroo
7d ago
Omg yess, I’m feeling this exact same thing too!!!
samantha
7d ago
Ah yes. This sounds fun! (Sarcasm). I’m dealing with the same right now. I am getting upset and feel wrong and guilty because I’m not super excited to hang out with him all the time. I’m trying to just let it be.
Redyroo
7d ago
Idk what to do! I’m currently contemplating whether to cancel on him or not
samantha
7d ago
Just go. If you cancel, you’re giving into your OCD because it wants you to cancel. Try to disregard
azaleas
7d ago
This is classic avoidance! One of the best ways you can help yourself is to lean into going and being ok with all emotions that arise during it, even if they’re not fun ones.