Have you heard of this ocd theme? Responsibility harm ocd, it’s the fear of causing emotional harm to others or feeling responsible.. my guess is that this can show up as “are you mad at me?” and just frequently apologizing probably.. it could be feeling like you are responsible for family dysfunction or other peoples distress.. (not a ocd professional, but this is my assumption)

Have You Heard Of Responsibility Harm OCD?

Harm OCD

"Pure" OCD

Oh yes. I think thats common and may manifest in a number of ways. I always worry that I've offended people with my dark humour at work and someone might commit suicide because of it and it would be my fault.