Hi, love is not a feeling, it's a choice. Feelings fluctuates from day to day, going from apathy, love, hate, neutrality. We all go through this. But you choose to stay, love is choosing to be with someone regardless of the so called "love feeling".
No. I think it can just make you feel bad and disconnected from you’re real emotions
So that must mean I actually am not in love, or have never been now.
@BradOCD No. I meant your lvoe is real. The good and the positive the stuff that made you feel like you THATS the real sruff
@BradOCD Is there any way you could help me with the post I just made?
@Bookworm91 But now when I look back was so many signs and it just feels like I was living a lie that I loved. Idk
@Bookworm91 Yeah I’ll try and find it
OCD tries to take the things that mean most to you and twist it. Love is not always this crazy amount of emotions. You aren't always going to feel those butterflies or intense feeling of madly in love. Love means different things to different people. Ask yourself what does love mean to you. Does it mean being comfortable with the person you are with, being able to open up and be honest, being able to be yourself, enjoying their company, etc. Love can come out in many different forms and ways. Don't beat yourself up over what you are feeling. Try and be comfortable with the uncertainty of life and OCD. Be patient and kind to yourself when you feel OCD flaring up.