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GetSomeBreadGetSomeBread
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This is absolute classic OCD. And you probably only experienced this once you used your attraction to men as a clutch, which is why a lot of people here try to settle just for being bisexual. I’ve definitely felt the same in my respective themes, but fighting against these thoughts just makes them worse, especially within these situations. So despite how uncomfortable it may be, you just have to either move towards the thoughts (without feeling the urge to genuinely question yourself whilst doing so) or just disengage.
GetSomeBreadGetSomeBread
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@Someday Welcome. Hope this wasn’t too reassurance-ish. ERP for the sake of comfort is a compulsion and usually falls on it’s head, so try and do it with the right mentality. But yeah, my pleasure.
simplyexhaustedsimplyexhausted
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im going through the same thingggg
simplyexhaustedsimplyexhausted
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@Someday yea i completely understand
InABubbleInABubble
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Im bisexual which makes this worse for me since I keep worrying im gay or straight and not actually bi. It sucks
Jman70Jman70
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ERP is really, really difficult, but on the plus side that usually means you're making progress.
cc97cc97
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Yes same
milevlmilevl
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You are definitely not alone
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