I’ve lost all excitement towards the opposite sex, and it feels like I find literally every member of the same sex attractive, literally every single one they could be 14 or 85… just as soon as I see a man it feels like I’m attracted. There’s little anxiety there now too. When I see an attractive women by brain just shuts off. I feel anxious about them. When I talk to me gf I feel calm but that just makes it all seem like it’s real because it feels like I’m calm about it?!? My head keeps rolling back through my past and convincing me of all the guys I was attracted to without realising and telling me I’ve never once found a women attractive. But I knew that in the moment I did. Maybe I’m bi? But then surely noticing that wouldn’t mean I lose my attraction to women? Can anyone help?!?

What’s everyone’s experience with loss of attraction to their preferred gender? (Not looking for reassurance, and I know people say stop trying to get it back) When I see a good looking woman, I feel sad that I can’t get feelings like I use too. Like the very bottom of my stomach feels heavy like it’s depressed… I know I want to be attracted to woman but this SOOCD and false attraction is destroying me.

Hi everyone, I’ve been really anxious lately, and I just need to get this out of my head. Someone recently told me that maybe I’m bisexual — that I might be more sexually attracted to women, but more romantically attracted to men. That bisexuality is not 50/50. And ever since I heard that, I’ve been spiraling. The thing is: I don’t want this to be true. It scares me. I don’t feel romantic attraction to women, I’ve never wanted to be in a relationship with one. But yes, I get aroused by fantasies involving women — and that makes me feel broken or like I’ve been lying to myself. I love my boyfriend deeply, I don’t want to lose him. I want to feel fully connected to him, physically and emotionally. But now I’m stuck in this obsessive loop of questioning: “What if I’m just in denial?” “What if I’m not really straight?” “What if this is why my libido is low?” It’s exhausting, and I don’t know if this is OCD, anxiety, or if something is fundamentally wrong. Has anyone else felt this split — romantic feelings for one gender, sexual feelings for another? I feel so alone and scared. Thanks for listening.

Anyone experiencing loss of attraction to opposite sex (what you had before any of this)…? I get the feeling that I like what I see in the opposite sex but then hit with what feels like depression or numb with makes me feel sad.