Wow really sucks when you get no replies, is it because people think Im gay now or bc i posted too much? either way i had it coming bc I wouldve done the same thing. Its just frustrating. Why couldnt have I gotten covid and passed away? Or some terminal illness with weeks to live? God, d3ath seems so bloody peaceful every mintue Im awake. I hope no other hocd sufferers end up like me. Dont flag this ffs

Whoa, whoa, whoa. . . I am sorry if you live in a world where people would ignore you because you're gay. You are seen, you are welcome (I mean, I don't run the place or nothing), you are on a message board set up to bury older posts under the newer ones and aren't necessarily read by a ton of people. Also, keep in mind that none of us are therapists and, speaking for myself, I feel ill-equipped to dole out advice, especially since my therapist has access to what I write. All I can do is share experience and, sometimes, cat pictures. I think what I'm doing right now is reassurance, which I shouldn't be doing, but I wanted you to know how these boards work.

I think sometimes we get no replies to our posts on here because people are either too drained due to their own OCD or they have a different theme and don't know how to help. Heck, it could even be that their OCD convinced them not to reply. Don't take it personal though. Many times I want to reply to posts on here but end up getting intrusive thoughts about replying.🤦🏽‍♀️

It probably has more to do with the absolute chaos that is early January than anything to do with you. I'm not saying January is a nightmare month BUTTTT

Same no one sees mine I feel ta

I think it’s because you’re so adamant that you’re gay. You’re not asking for reassurance or anything, so I think people don’t feel compelled to reply.