- Username
- Johnny101
- Date posted
- 2y ago
I have dealt with this exactly. I found out that the reason it keeps happening is because we keep perpetuating the cycle. The human mind thinks there is a threat and so It goes into dissociation as a protective mechanism. What helps is to know that this is all it is a mind mechanism and it will pass on its own, you don't gotta do anything except accept that it's there and like not take it seriously at all
there was a YouTube vid that cleared it up for me lemme see if I can find it
@charissepisces2021 Not sure if this is what you experience but give it a shot https://youtu.be/h7u59TkQTxY
@charissepisces2021 Thank you so much for sharing this - it explains exactly what I'm going through, alongside Existential OCD.
we’re you able to break the cycle? @charissepisces2021
Yes but it's not about breaking it I just let it be completely, but idk if what I experienced was the same thing you are experiencing. It comes around every now and then but not nearly as much and it's easier to deal with if it does come up. Goes away quicker
Yep, right there with you. I'm doing lots of work on this at the moment with my therapist, and it can get better. Leaning into it and trying to not be bothered by it are really helping, even though it sounds like the last thing you'd want to do with it. Also, I use the 'good enough/best guess' approach - my OCD wants 100% certainty that everything is real, but that's not possible. So I have to say to myself - 'right, I'm calling it - I'm about 70% sure that I'm real, and I'm carrying on with my day because I'll never know for certain'. Some days it's easier than others, but you're being really brave - hang in there.
I’m going through a dpdr spike rn. The only thing you can do is ride it out. The more you fight it the worse it will get. It’s your brain conserving it’s energy bc it thinks u r A) in danger like fight or flight or B) how you dealt with trauma in the past like a mental checkout ur brain will do that bc it protected you before but it doesn’t know that it’s not doing a good job rn. It may have served a purpose in the past but it doesn’t now. When u learn more coping skills as you continue in ur ocd journey it will get easier. When an episode happens now I recognize what it is and ride the wave
How do you guys deal with depersonalization as a result of existential OCD? I normally go through phases of OCD tendencies, and my last one was centered on ROCD - I guess the distress of that theme has caused me to dissociate whenever the intrusive thoughts get too much. It just hurts when I look at my boyfriend (or even other people around me new) and my brain tells me they’re not real, or I don’t know them at all. I’m not sure how to experience it without simply crying. Any help would be appreciated.
Really thought about whether or not to post this but I’m really struggling and wondering if anyone has gone through the same thing/what helped them out of it. I have fears of psychosis/schiz/delusions and I started having intrusive thoughts that sound and feel delusional even though I know they’re not true, and I don’t actually believe them. I obsess over whether I think they’re true and if I’m actually delusional, then I start to feel really disconnected and dreamy (like derealization?) but then I get worried that I’m actually dissociating and/or losing my mind. I rly struggle w these thoughts as they make me so uncomfortable and make me feel like I am delusional. I will reread things I wrote, rethink things I have already said to make sure they’re coherent, argue w my thoughts, constantly check to make sure I know who I am, where I am, know who my family is, etc. to ensure I’m not losing my mind. My themes switch from this, to harm ocd and I’m just really having a hard time w the thoughts mixed w the disconnected feeling. It makes me want to stay in bed forever and cry because I don’t wanna feel this way anymore. Any advice would be so helpful.
I have been going through a really hard time lately in regard to my existential ocd. Not only that but my health anxiety has been horrible. What I wanted to bring up to see if a conversation could be had was my derealization. I have been having severe random bouts of derealization that are genuinely starting to feel debilitating. The best way I can describe it is I get sick to my stomach when I think about life, being alive, I convince myself im in a dream, that im stuck in a time loop and nothing around me is real and that ive been making up my entire life. With this also comes the intense feeling that everything has already happened before, its like deja vu but almost worse. I will be in moments lately and every single thing feels like it already happened, then that spirals into me believing nothing is real and im stuck in some kind of dream. Everything feels familiar, everything had already happened, sometimes stuff feels so familiar it genuinely will make me start to throw up because im so scared. Can someone please have a discussion with me and just let me know if theyve felt this way, what I should do, and if itll ever get better? Im genuinely convinced life will feel this way forever and im never going to be okay with being alive again and it genuinely makes me feel insane and so terrified. Thank you.
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