okay so i’m pretty sure i am bi (like actually and i am perfectly fine with that) That really isn’t coming from the ocd but i do think it’s hard coming to that conclusion while still experiencing soocd. Like i have proof that i like boys and girls but my brain won’t let me like both like i have to find one or the other. I don’t know why my mind doesn’t think it’s okay for me to like both it has to be one of the other and it feels like such a confusing feeling. It’s making me sad because i know i love my boyfriend so much but i feel like that must not be real feelings if i also like girls

Yeah my brain can’t accept bi or lesbian no matter how times I tell it it’s fine 🤣 I’ll be like but I find women to be SO pretty??? And it’s like then you’re gay!! And then I get anxious and I’m like NO IM NOT. And it’s like wtf!!! How do I just get over this?

Hi Hannah! My name is also Hannah hehe. I relate so so much! My brain is always trying to come to a conclusion about one or the other but if I say maybe I am, maybe I’m not or maybe it is real, maybe it isnt, that really helps me not put pressure on trying to figure it out. It’s really really difficult not to think about, but please be patient with yourself and allow the uncertainty. That’s the best thing you can do!

Omggg I have this same issue!!! My brain is constantly questioning it, even when I can say I’m bisexual. My brain isn’t pleased with that information. It needs certainty

I am so terrified of being bi, but at the same time I’m not? I feel like I could accept being bi but I don’t want to date girls, I never have. I don’t understand. But I’ve done things in the past that prove I’m also attracted to women, and that scares me. How do you know you’re bi?