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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 3y
Congrats on getting therapy! I had rOCD really bad about 2 years ago, but I’m doing way better now 👍🏼
That's is awesome, congrats! Do you have any advice about what worked best for you. What kind of issues were you dealing with?
@realconshus I had a lot of intrusive thought about not being physically attracted to her. Instead of trying to convince myself that I was attracted to her, I kept telling myself that maybe I’m not and I’m stuck in this relationship. It was very triggering but that was the point. I also do some ACT therapy, I think it supplements ERP very well. I also used the YouTube channel AwakenIntoLove for information and support
@Drvmstick I will be doing the same and accepting what OCD tells me about my attraction toward her. I'm glad it worked for you. What is ACT?
@realconshus It’s Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. It’s basically just acceptance. If I feel bad, I just accept that I feel bad and that it’s gonna suck, but I can still go to work or do what I need to do when I feel bad. And I know it’s temporary and will pass. Makes things a little easier when you learn to embrace it 😌
@Drvmstick I see, I get super anxious when I start feeling bad because it confuses me and I want to know why. This helps though because most of my issues come from panicking
@realconshus Yeah that used to happen to me too! And still does, but way less. I would get anxious about being anxious, and that’s a vicious cycle
@Drvmstick Totally. So how much would you say your symptoms have decreased?
@realconshus Drastically. I can go weeks without symptoms. And when they do come on I have learned how to accept them and ride it out and I always come out the other end feeling even stronger than before
@Drvmstick I think it helps to think of OCD episodes as opportunities to grow
@Drvmstick I agree. I'm glad to here that your symptoms have gone way down, that's where I want to be. So far today, I am doing well using "maybe yes, maybe no, I am living my life and moving forward" It sure beats checking and worrying 😀
@realconshus Yep definitely chat anytime
Hey! I am suffering from ROCD right now, always here to chat, I don’t know anyone who feels like me.
I feel the same way, but I'm confident we are probably going through something similar
Chat anytime I’m here for you and everyone
Thank you. I'm glad there is support here
I’m going through a lot of rocd rn. My girlfriend recently broke up with me and she didn’t really tell me why, but I feel like it’s safe to assume it’s because of the behaviors I was partaking in because of rocd. I really wish I took action earlier, but my first session was really good.
I'm sorry to hear that you and your girlfriend broke up. It's good that you're getting help and I hope you stick with it.
Hi there! I’ve struggled with ROCD in every relationship and only just learned what it is. Learning that it’s anxiety that can’t hurt me, and not just me being a terrible person, has been immensely helpful. But it’s still hard. The biggest improvements from my new understanding have been 1) not panicking or considering ending the relationship and 2) better communication with my partner about my anxieties. Glad you’re getting started!
But I still struggle with it in some form or another every day! I find that it jumps around between different little themes. Like I got better about questioning if I imagined my feelings for him, and I got better about my sexual anxieties, but then I started getting anxious about commitment and our future. Whenever I’m feeling more secure about that, I start getting anxious about him hating me or wanting to break up with me. Sneaky!
@jello86 I’ve also noticed some derealization that is really difficult to find any advice about. Like “wait, who even is this person?” type feelings, and all my perceptions start to feel odd like I’m in a dream and things feel creepy. Touch and kissing can feel repulsive in those times. If anyone else has had that experience, I would love to talk about it 💙
@jello86 I have experienced this. It's really tough and confusing. I think in the end, if we do the work and use the tools, things can get better. I think trusting that it's OCD is probably one of the biggest components to getting better.
Hi all, I deal with HOCD and been seeing a therapist for about 3.5 months. It has definitely got better but still affects me very much. Was wondering there is anyone out there who has dealt with HOCD as well and has recovered. I would love to message or even chat just see how your experience was and hear what was beneficial to you.
I’m new to treatment and only realized I have OCD a few months ago. I went through a tough and abusive marriage and ended up getting divorced. I had my first panic attack several years ago and ended up needing to go on Lexapro. This helped me significantly and allowed me to leave my partner. Several years later and I decided to stop Lexapro because I thought I was good to go. I’m in a very healthy relationship, have a great job, friends/family, go to the gym and have a wonderful life. It’s been about a year off the meds and I’ve had some panic, but I’ve been able to manage it. For some reason, the last three weeks has been really difficult for me. I have different spirals and different thought processes: what if I’m schizophrenic? What if I have a deeper mental disorder? What if I hurt someone? What if I need to leave my partner? What if I end up becoming so depressed that I end up hurting myself? My brain just goes from one what if to the next and once I conquer one, the next one pops up with even more intensity. I started taking NAC and inositol and I’m taking saffron during the day because I really don’t wanna go on back on medication but sometimes my thoughts scare me and I’m convinced that I’m not gonna get better and I know that’s just the OCD loop, but I’m wondering if this resonates with anyone else!
Is there a therapist or a specialist on here that I can briefly chat with? Or maybe an OCD conqueror who’s very familiar with the disorder? I need an experienced person to talk to me so bad. I just really wanna talk to somebody about what I’m going through so that I feel less alone, and so I can maybe get help managing my symptoms. Thank you in advance ♥️
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