Is it still a groinal response if it feels like real arousal? Honestly I hope this doesn't sound inappropriate or tmi but I haven't read this anywhere and I'm just dying in anxiety and fear, hoping I'm not alone: do they feel 'good' but disgusting and disturbing because you know you don't want it to feel like that? I talked with someone and they said it's normal because it's a sensation that is meant to feel like that but then I spiralled thinking, so is a groinal response essentially unwanted arousal? Is that what it is? Because hyperfocus doesn't feel the same at all. I know that I get random movement every day but I don't care because that's happened all my life. But this?