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Familiarize yourself with ACT.
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Ok
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@Anonymous Thanks for responding.
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@Anonymous Of course
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I think coming into exposure therapy with a willingness to do the hard work is a great way to prepare. Exposure work is intended to increase the anxiety around your intrusive thoughts, but eventually anxiety will start to come down the more you practice exposures. The good news is you won’t be alone, you will have your ERP therapist along side you! NOCD also offers many support groups and other resources. I would recommend using as many of these resources as you can!
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First of all, congratulations on starting this journey. Even just thinking about it is a big step and shows your OCD that you're not messing around! :) 1. Know that your NOCD therapist is not going to be fazed by anything you say. OCD comes up with *all kinds* of things and your therapist has heard them all (or at least enough to not be shocked haha). 2. Remember that you will go at your pace. Your therapist's job is to help YOU create your path to recovery. You will not do any exposures until you're ready (and by the time you get to your "hardest exposures" they won't be as bad anymore... that's how it works!). 3. Trust the process. My therapist told me that ERP doesn't typically make OCD worse at the beginning, but you will be intentionally doing things to trigger your distress. The cool thing is that when you do that, you're also intentionally sitting with the discomfort and watching/waiting for it to subside. And again, never to an overwhelming point. Your therapist is trained to help you get familiar with it first and follow your pace. I hope this helps. I know it is so scary, and I also know that you're capable to do this! The fact that you're here says so much. Keep going!
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I’m on track to getting my diagnosis and i’m already questioning it. Pocd feels so real, and even though i once saw someone say “it has to feel real or you wouldn’t worry” which is like god level reassurance honestly, it hurts. I can’t look at children, they deserve better. My usual attraction seems to be gone and i can not think about anything else. At the same time i don’t really feel anxiety. I’m scared i don’t feel bad enough, if i just smiled maybe i honestly wouldn’t feel bad? I don’t have many other ocd symptoms either, except for some stuff when i was a kid and like questioning everything about myself. I’m clinging to the hope that this is Pocd instead of me being a Monster and at the same time i’m so sad that i have to go trough this. I don’t like myself but i’m sorry for my younger self. I just want to be held and be told that everything will be okay but how can i know? Even then i feel like comfort of that kind only really applies to others who are struggling and aren’t horrible like me. In so many ways i sm convinced i am a monster even though it might be a bit irrational. Maybe i’m a monster after all and then i should really get away from everyone i love. They deserve better :( After a lifetime of struggles (nothing super serious) i’m just getting started with therapy and i’m so.. scared. What if it won’t help? What if it turns out i’m the bad person i fear to be. Is there any way i can prepare or some tips or literally anything else? I would appreciate any wise words
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