Does anyone else struggle with intrusive thoughts about their ex? It’s caused me to question my current relationship bc i can’t get my stupid ex out of my mind. It’s making me feel like i shouldn’t be with my current boyfriend especially if my ex keeps popping into my head. I feel so bad bc it wasnt always that bad. I used to be able to control them bc i loved my bf so much but now it’s making me question everything. I keep telling myself “he’s your ex for a reason” but my mind hasn’t ever allowed me to fully get rid of the thoughts of him completely. I feel like I’m stuck in the past. I guess bc our bond was so strong but it just didn’t workout in the end. I wish i knew how to get rid of the them all together so it won’t continue to ruin my relationship with my current boyfriend. He is so amazing and i don’t want to lose him to the thoughts. I chose him over my ex when he tried getting back together with me for a reason. I need help 😞