What was your orientation before this happened ?
Do you think I’m lying to myself and him!?
It’s most likely ocd playing tricks on you
I go through the same thing I identify as straight as well … They have support groups with Nocd and I actually joined one today and there was this very attractive girl and I was focused on her pretty much the whole time.
This is my opinion… is if you get butterflies when you see them & can’t stop making eye contact with them. That’s the real you . Also, when I see a woman with a fatty I just be like “Godda*um she got that thang on her” & continue looking
Yeah but anxiety can feel the same way bro, its all confusing af
But fasho shawty with fattys im like 👀👀👀👀👀
Hey bud, not to be a party pooper her but I believe she might have been asking for reasurance and you gave her some. Also, butterflies in your stomach and hyperfocusing in someone is a common thing for people with sexually themed OCD. The best advice I can give both of you, is stop trying to figure it out, your true self is likely to be the person you eer before obsessions started but don't keep questioning, I say from experience that it will only make it harder.
Best to sit and chill man, im currently doing that now 🤟🏻
You have a point !
this has happened to me so many times!! i find that the best way to manage it is just to try to be in the present in the moment- do they make you happy? do you feel good around them and enjoy their company? if you’re not sure- that’s okay too! it helps for me to remind myself i’m not forced to marry or commit to anyone forever and if i need to there’s always a way out:)
This is so helpful and insightful for me🥺
@qu33rsci3ntist i’m so glad:)) you got this
Ocd playing tricks on you , I've gone through this crap it's so frustrating and you feel alone. You're not alone I've gone through this crap. I actually worked with a guy who was gay had a fear of going straight, he was pretty much saying the same thing's as me just on the opposite end
Don’t try to figure it out, Do erp.