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- 2y
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- 2y
Yes I say I am ok, but really paralyzed with fear. I have things I need to clean, but it is so hard to do those things I see as contaminated because it frightens me. But it scares me to even have these dirty areas in my house.
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- 2y
can’t lie tho. I go many days at a time just sitting on my couch crying & feeling paralyzed. I just can’t win with this
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- 2y
I'm the same way Vicious. I dont have people over and can spend hours just doing a few things because of how long it takes to do it right. I sometimes stand just thinking about how I will go about what I need to do in an order that doesnt contaminate something else. But there is always something that needs to be cleaned because I was in the area. Today I did pretty good though. I read more about ERP and got myself to allow myself to do these things and not be as freaked out at least.
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- 2y
Way to go Pigpen, congrats on your good day! ERP is not easy, but super beneficial. I’ve been working with it for about a month now. Let me tell ya, it has been a process. I can’t tell you how much I’ve cried over looking at an unclean thing, but I have been making noticeable improvement. I have both good days and set backs, but a slip is not a slide. I’m still wrapping my head around that there are other people in the world that have difficulties like mine. Reading peopes thoughts and messages here has been an awesome boost too!
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- 2y
I’m a compulsive cleaner that looks like I have my shit together. I can spend several hours cleaning and disinfecting the floors and still not be content. I frequently cry in the shower to muffle my meltdowns. I feel guilty about my condition, but would feel even worse if someone notices. I have no friends or people over to my house, yet I still feel the need to hide myself this way.
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- 2y
Thanks! I'm trying to find someone to accept my insurance. Hopefully nocd will at some point but they dont. I feel like I am alone when I see people going about their day when I'm driving miles to go to a store I feel isnt contaminated like the ones close to me. Even my sons school. He wanted to go to a different one and I was happy because the one he is zoned for would make me panic every day and spend hours cleaning which I already do anyway. Now I am trying to get myself to at least be ok with the thought of places and things. Glad someone can relate to what I go through. Noone even knows how much this affects my life.
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- 9w
I never heard about people with OCD who have messy living conditions. Maybe this is why it took so long to accept my diagnosis. Although I really dont like how OCD is percieved at by the majority of people, I feel like Im weird or something because I dont fit into that stereotype. I understand that a lot of people with OCD have this issue, but why do I feel so different? If anybody else has/had this belief, what helps with feeling more comfortable? Everytime my mom points out my room, and how its messy- Its like I feel so lazy and useless. So then I often plan out everything I was going to do, step by step, always having a reasoning behind everything, because logic always comforts me. When I start tidying up my room, I go full out (Sheets, Laundry, Clorox, Candles, Vaccuming, Then I start going through the guinea pigs cage to rearranging all of their stuff) Yet always somewhere after doing a few things, I start feeling disgusting and almost shameful of myself. 99% of the time I end up laying on my floor sobbing, noting every little thing about my room. How my furiniture doesnt match, how i would rather have solid floor like hardwood or vinyl instead of the carpet, usually things i cant change… and then barely anything gets done in my room. I start to have a meltdown and often dont take care of myself even more afterwards. A piece of me feels like my thoughts are just me being a spoiled brat and wanting everything i dont have- meanwhile others dont even have a roof over their head. The other piece of me is just tired, just emotionally exaughsted. Please comment any thoughts or recomendations to maybe improve motovation and attitude towards doing long tasks.
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- 6w
I’ve never been diagnosed with OCD, but I relate so much to what people here are going through. I used to think it was just anxiety, and I felt like I could handle that. But lately I’ve been spiraling—constantly afraid that what I’m feeling is something worse, like psychosis or losing control of my mind. I feel so detached and scared, and I just want peace again. I have anxiety doing the smallest things, like the thought of waking up everyday and even eating give me straight up panic. I am afraid all the time, it’s paralyzing. And a lot of people say someone with psychosis wouldn’t worry that they’re in it, but then I convince myself I’ve been in it this whole time, and haven’t known, and that maybe I’ve been doing weird stuff. Idk. I also get really scared of labels. Even the idea of OCD makes me feel like I’ll never get better or like I’ll be stuck like this forever. I just want to be okay. If anyone has felt this way—confused, overwhelmed, or scared of what’s happening in their mind—I’d really appreciate any support or encouragement.
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- 5w
I know that sounds a bit harsh, but people with OCD think very differently then everyone else and we do strange things. I used to think OCD was just that we overthink to much and have compulsions to fix it, but its kinda alot more than that i realise. Like peoples lives are legit debilitated from this thing. Thats serious and i dont think others realise that. Mabye im concerned too much idk.
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