I just want my identity back, I felt so confident in myself for so long and now I can’t tell what I want or feel

I can kind of relate to how you feel and it can be unsettling, just holding out hope that I’ll feel better in the future and things will fall into place with my career/family.

I’m so sorry you’re going through that Taylor. I know exactly how you feel. I’ve found that by doing the things that used to make me happy even when I don’t want to, I started to reclaim my identity. I hope that helps.