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SOCD
Does anybody with hocd cant have sex because of hocd and introusive thoughts?
Does anybody with hocd cant have sex because of hocd and introusive thoughts?
Yup. I lose interest in doing stuff with my girlfriend and at times, feel numb toward her
@Anonymous you got anxiety doing it?
@mrgg11 I get it at times. It’s up and down.
@Anonymous can i ask u some private wuestions?
@mrgg11 I’d rather not friend. Just know, I’ve struggled to be intimate or to enjoy my time with my girlfriend. Sometimes I feel numb towards her. So I understand how difficult it is
@Anonymous yea i have it too i cant have sex and im 7 months with her its harddd
@mrgg11 Damn man
I’m 25 and never ever thought this before my soocd relapse. I have a bf of 5 years. Never been a high libido kinda girl. Don’t get me wrong I do get turned on by my bf but not like every day you know? - That had always been in the back of my head, is this normal and ok? But my ocd has latched onto the most scariest what if EVER. My brain is now saying How do you know you won’t prefer to sleep and kiss girls if you haven’t tried it: and it’s that unknown that is scaring the shit out of me. I DONT AND NEVER HAVE wanted to sleep / kiss a girl. But now my intrusive thoughts is all I think about!!! I don’t want I don’t want I don’t want??? So why does my brain think BUT WHAT IF??? I know ocd thrives off uncertainty which is why I think this is happening? But I don’t wanna find out or work it out because all I want is to be with my bf and marry him!! Is this just the epitome of OCD?
Can sexual orientation ocd make you act on your fears and make you have same sex experiences ever and then after the experience realize that’s not what you are or want?
So with my theme of ocd, ( hocd ) I get persistent intrusive images, and thoughts. It’s not like one or two a day. Like if I’m out for the whole day they’re constant. I feel I can’t even look at a girl now without her intrusive thoughts about her or about me fancying her and even sexual intrusive thoughts.. It’s awful. It’s everywhere I look. Is this common with ocd with any themes? Like is it constant for you guys too?
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