mrgg11
- Date posted
- 2y
SOcD
Is normal sfter some time in rocd and socd to all triggers me with gf and id rather go out with friends than with my gf is it normal ?
EmilyCruceEmilyCruce
- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 2y
It sounds like you are dealing with some intrusive thoughts here surrounding whether or not it’s okay to sometimes prefer to go to out with friends then your girlfriend. It’s always healthy to spend time outside of your relationship. Only you and your therapist would be able to decipher if there are problems in the relationship that are causing you to feel this way. I’d suggest to discuss this with your therapist if you have one!
mrgg11mrgg11
- Date posted
- 2y
@EmilyCruce I am not like before and i dont know im dealing with hocd to maybecif im not in denial so i m asking is it maybe because im gay
EmilyCruceEmilyCruce
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- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 2y
@mrgg11 Unfortunately we will never truly know right? That’s why sitting in the distress of uncertainty is beneficial for recovery. “Maybe, maybe not!”
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