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I just miss myself before I got pregnant again I want to get back to that person again not this panic ocd mess it feels like I won’t bounce back again to my old self and it makes me so sad and just hate life 😭
I’m sorry for your pain and understand!! You will get better- hang in there!!
@ann61 Thank you so much! I really hope so! This time is just sooo much different then the last time I went through this it just wasn’t nearly as bad what I’m going through right now which is scaring the hell out of me
I too am struggling, as a new mom. ocd is taking so much of my time. Its hard to remember how I functioned before. Really hoping I can do the ERP to get my life back. My days are strictly baby and ocd, no time or energy for anything else. I'm missing so much and makes me feel like a failure as a mom, but I keep trying. With counseling It has been slowly getting better in some ways as time goes on, but not quick enough. Wish I could just do a brain reboot.
@TR03 You are in a sense doing a brain reboot with therapy and erp
@TR03 You aren’t a failure. Most new moms are exhausted and you have the added burden of OCD. When my son was little it was the same for me baby and OCD. You can get through this.
@TR03 I sooo can relate to you I havnt felt the extreme overwhelming part of postpartum in 4 years however I’m pregnant again and it all smacked me right in the face plus came along with panic attacks this time around! I can’t stop thinking I’m gonna go mentally crazy especially after I give birth because I havnt even hit the worst part yet I’m sooo scared but we got this I’m trying to keep at least a little positive because it really does eventually get better especially with the right help!!
@linds123 How long did it take you to balance out the first time? Is it the bodies response to the hormones? I haven't really slept in a year. My son has me holding him all night most nights. I try to acknowledge what little progress I've made to give me encouragement to keep trying.
@linds123 Sorry I just noticed your other comment that answered what i asked. We want another baby but not sure how id handle it which is why I'm wanting to try ERP
@TR03 Your ok! I’d definitely seek out erp before trying and also if ur not taking medication now for your ocd start doing it I wish I would have done that before I got pregnant again because I’m really suffering this time around
My OCD was really bad after I had my son and I had postpartum depression when I weaned him so I can relate. Since you said it’s different this time it may help to talk to your OBGYN and see if your hormones are off. Hang in there and if you can get some ERP help. Either way be kind to yourself. You can get through this.
@Erin P Oh it’s 100% because of the hormones it has to be because I was 100% fine before I got pregnant again it took 4 years to get better after my son and my hormones to get back in check fully so now I’m freaking out cuz this time it’s even worse then before with panic attacks and I feel like I can’t think clearly I told my ob that I’m struggling all they have me on is buspar 5 mg and it’s not even doing anything for me anymore so it’s really been a struggle but I’m almost there which is pretty scary but can’t wait at the same time because then I can really get put on something to help instead of being so careful with the meds I’m on but thank you I really appreciate your comment!
@linds123 When my OBGYN have not understood how off my hormones are I’ve asked for blood tests. This has helped them see what I needed. Good luck.
@Erin P Awesome maybe I will have to do that as well so do u just ask and they will give you one? I’m happy you got help!
@linds123 It’s depended on the OBGYN - one has just done, the other I had to be insistent to get it. I’m hoping yours just says yes. Good luck.
@Erin P Thanks so much I appreciate it 😊
Omg I think this all the time. I miss the old me because ocd is so hard to live with. Atm I’m worried about trying for baby 2. We really want to have more kids but I’m scared about my mental health. Also, I want to do some generally recommended genetic screens before conceiving but I’m terrified of the results like what if my husband and I are carriers for a serious condition and what does this mean for our first born (we didn’t do this screen before, I’d never heard of them) My gp suggested I try sertraline. I’m still breastfeeding so I’m scared how it’ll affect my son and how it’ll affect an unborn baby should I get pregnant soon while being on it. Would anyone recommend this medication and would they suggest trying it for a few months then coming off or before conceiving. Gp said it is safe though I don’t know if I’d want to go down that round you know?
@divyD Road* not round
@divyD First let me say EVERYONE is different but for me Zoloft had a really bad affect on me it made my ocd a whole lot worse but everyone’s different for a lot of people it helps there ocd and anxiety it just doesn’t for me but honestly I’d definitely see a therapist if you arnt already and try maybe a low dose of the medication to see how you like it as far as the breastfeeding thing goes I’m not so sure about that I would talk more to your OB about that and see what they think but yes I would try and get your mental health under good control before u conceive again because I didn’t and it’s been hell for me like this is worse then the postpartum ocd I went through for 3 n half years 😥
When I was pregnant they did a blood test for some genetic screens for baby and me I think. They didn't do that with your first pregnancy?
@TR03 No, they didn’t. It’s an added screen so I don’t think a lot of people do it.
@linds123 Thank u for your honesty. I’m so sorry you’re going through such a hard time
I wanted to try & get pregnant this year. But bc my anxiety & HOCD have been so bad this year Idk if I should. Makes me sad. Idk if I could handle all the thoughts with a baby. I just wanna be me again ??♀️
Will I ever be a girl again ? Is this just my life now ? At this point it’s just making me depressed. I feel idk who I am anymore and the person thought I was is fading completely. It hurts to see other pretty girl doing great in life like that’s what I wanted . I wanted to be a pretty girl who loved her self and did good in life . I want a husband, baby all of that shit . And I feel like this just holds me back from living up to my true potential.
Been feeling rlly sad ab not being able to recover...I just want to turn back time & be happy again. Also afraid It’s never gonna get better
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