I eat boys
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- 6y
0Aqi00Aqi0
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- 6y
I don’t think that today’s culture “wants everyone to be gay.” It’s more acceptable today, for good reason, but most reasonable people aren’t forcing others to be gay. However, there is small but very vocal minority of people that wants others to conform to their particular social/political viewpoints (SJWs, as they’re called). It can seem as if society “wants everyone to be gay” because these people talk over the rest of us rational LGBT people.
I eat boysI eat boys
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- 6y
@MichelleC23, right. while I am accepting and have been bi curious myself before, I just feel like not everyone deserves to be called a ‘homophobe’ for having different beliefs.
I eat boysI eat boys
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- 6y
@pancake, No, I don’t mean because I’m seeing it everywhere. I mean there are people who have literally told me “no, you’re gay.” When I specifically said I am not. I feel that this is the way a lot of people in our culture talk, but especially triggering for those who have HOCD.
MichelleC23MichelleC23
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- 6y
No, but it seems to want to force acceptance of the lifestyle, regardless of one's beliefs for or against active homosexuality...
I eat boysI eat boys
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- 6y
Thanks for clarifying. I do think that SJWs was what I was trying to get at, although couldn’t quite put my finger on it. It isn’t right to tell someone who they’re attracted to.
pancakepancake
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- 6y
Hi! Queer person here :). In my experience, society does not want everyone to be gay. It is pride month tho, in many areas, and sometimes that leaks into July. It is likely you are seeing a ton of gay themed stuff right now, as a lot of companies are pushing towards being more inclusive and accepting of all types of people. This is the first year where I noticed it, to the point where i was like "wow, we get it, rainbows everywhere." It is quite in your face. I can totally understand how this can be triggering to someone who has themes that revolve around the fear of being gay.
takecaretakecare
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- 6y
@h56, you don’t if you have hocd, that’s the thing(
pancakepancake
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- 6y
I'm so sorry that people are so insensitive to you! Sending all the love to you, OCD is such a jerk!
h56h56
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- 6y
Sorry
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- 19w
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edimichael
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- 16w
question
can i turn gay? and suddenly start liking gay and men sexual parts even though i never liked them before i scared i will start doing it and lose my attraction to females
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