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- 2y ago
I avoid going out (nightlife wise) to avoid ocd
Anyone else? I hate ocd!!!!!
Anyone else? I hate ocd!!!!!
SAME. I don’t drink anymore cause of OCD.
@Brooklyn_99 I can understand. I don’t drink at all but now with my ocd themes I definitely don’t ever consider it
I started to isolate more for fear of my OCD. It provided me the illusion of safety, when in reality, I was missing out on life experiences. However, once I started ERP/therapy, I started to get some relief from the obsessive compulsive cycle. I slowly started to get my life back, and started doing the things I enjoyed again. My OCD will still try and tell me to avoid things at times, and sometimes I give in, but I try to work towards being free from that fear, or at least have the courage to walk through it. ERP has really helped me with this, but I still have a long way to go. I hope this helps in some way!
@Anon. Thank you so much. I am lucky to have therapy two years ago but I would like to get therapy again. I told myself this is my year to get my life back. I’m trying
@Monitica I can relate! It’s easy to let myself slip into past OCD behaviors and tell myself it’s manageable. When in reality for me, it seems to be progressive. I have to keep working for growth in recovery, but it’s easier said than done at times! I wish you the best moving forward with recovery. Feel free to comment if you have any questions!
Omg yes I wanna clubbing but I’m worried that I’ll meet someone who’s interested in me but I’ll end up obsessing whether or not I’m attracted to him bc of my SO-OCD 🥲
@blazed You gotta face it though. If you continue to avoid it. It will grow and grow. You can be strong and handle it. You are NOT what OCD says you are!
@Brooklyn_99 Thank you! I agree. It’s the one thing I’m struggling the most with right now and I can’t seem to get past it.
@blazed The only way out is thru. I’m still learning that too. Be kind to yourself. You got this!
@blazed Like Brooklyn said, you gotta face the music. Try to get out and practice erp. I have to do the same
Anyone struggle with this with having ocd?
Last night I was staying at my boyfriend’s house and couldn’t sleep. I felt like i desperately needed to go back to my parents and clean and organize my room. This has happened a few times before when I was staying at his place. Since then he’s been very upset with me. Does anyone else’s partner do this? Any advice? It’s been hard. He’s made me feel so shameful for having OCD. As if it’s not tough enough /:
I want to beat OCD because I have seen and felt the benefits of clearing my brain from unnecessary, pointless, thoughts. OCD is like 0 calorie food. It’s pointless. No nutrition or benefits come from my obsessions or compulsions. I don’t care to have answers to everything anymore. I catch myself just trying to stress myself out so that I have some worry to feed on. But like I said, it’s a 0 calorie food. I get nothing from it but wasted time and energy. My brain feels more spacious when I’m not consumed by OCD. I’m present. My personality has room to be herself without making space for bullshit. I tell myself now that worry is poison. I think Willie Nelson was the person I got that quote from? Anyways, that imagery of worries being poison for the mind has been transformative for me. I’m evolving. 💖 Thanks NOCD community.
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