Does anybody else deal with RJ? Right now It’s at the point where I freely enjoy anything sexual about my girlfriend, my mind immediately goes “i bet thats what she did for X(person)”. And then I’m just haunted by hellish movies in my mind of her with her past partners.
Omg yes I struggle with it so bad. My bf has literally done nothing to make me feel worried, but I still get so upset over his past. He had a lot of partners in the past and I did not, so maybe that is why? I’m trying to get better and think about it like “They chose me for a reason and our relationship is only unique to us.” It’s so hard sometimes :,) but I think it’s best to try and communicate with ur partner. It’s probs awkward at first, but sometimes extra reassurance can really help :)