Please. I need some advice . Anything

I didn't go through this, but I think try and too connect with him like asking for a date or just spending time with each other would make him happy. Maybe take your time and make/buy things for him. He will most likely appreciate it because their partner is trying their best to connect.

Thanks

@Princesss Your welcome !

i understand what you’re feeling. my rocd has been so bad this month, but yano what? my 3 year anniversary is tomorrow and this is my longest relationship, and by far my healthiest. i haven’t exactly figured out how to “manipulate” the feelings back but i constantly remind myself of the beauty in my relationship. i have someone who is patient and kind to me, someone who works all week to provide for us, someone who sits w me in my darkest seconds. i also opened up to him, not for reassurance but bc my thoughts felt so deep- it felt unfair to him (in my mind) so i opened up and we discussed it together and that was refreshing. basically what i’m saying is- it’s just thoughts, yano that sudden rush of peace you get after saying that to yourself? bc you know it’s true. remind yourself to keep falling in love w your partner. i’ve always heard it’s not easy but you have to make the conscious choice to choose your partner every day no matter what. hope this helps 🫶🏼

It does. A lot.

@Princesss you’ll get thru this and the next fixation will feel just like this but you’ll find comfort in your partner then. there’s something ab that whole gray area that brings me comfort.