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Play this for them. https://youtu.be/HeYjDbRmAsM
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- OCD Conqueror
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- 5y ago
Hi there! I don’t have very good advice to this part; I’m struggling just like you. I just wanted to let you know you aren’t alone. My parents don’t really “bEliEvE mEnTaL iLlNeSs iS a ThInG”. It’s hard when I go to therapy and they ask me when I’m going to get better. I don’t know. You’re not alone.
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- 5y ago
What about printing some articles about it for them to read so they would understand it better? Maybe it could help them see that you’re not just a weirdo if you show them that it’s not just you suffering and that OCD isn’t what many people assume it is?
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I told all the people that I’m close to and it makes you feel better when you realize even if they don’t understand. My mom never experience mental health either. Wen I told her everything she googled it. And she helped me.
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What a great question. I completely get it, it's really hard. I would ask why you feel the need to tell someone to have OCD. If it is because you want to have some kind of specific support, then make sure you let them know what it is, otherwise probably they won't know how to help you or how to approach it. My das got upset because ai mentioned some of my intrusive thoughts out loud; so, as other people have mentioned, be ready that some people might not know how to support you. If the only support you know you need is hugs, then let them know.
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Awesome video
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thank you so much each and every one of you, that video is sooooo helpful and true. I don't even know why I want to tell them in all honesty, I feel like I owe it to them? Besides medical professionals, I'm the only person who knows I have ocd - which feels wierd. I guess I'll talk when I'm ready and when/if it's right for me. Thank you again everyone I value this community so much !!!!!!
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There are books out there for OCD that are targeted at family members. Maybe buy one and just let them realize it's real and there are more people out there struggling.
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"What can family and friends do to help? This chapter is addressed to anyone who has a relative, close friend, or partner with OCD. (We use the term ‘relative’ in this chapter as shorthand for all the possibilities.) Having OCD can play havoc with relationships and place an enormous burden on those who live with or love a person with OCD. This strain can lead to frequent conflicts and, occasionally, there can be violence on both sides. If you have OCD and are also reading this chapter, then the last thing we want to do is to cause you to feel yet more guilt, shame, or fear; but this is yet another example of how OCD can pretend to be keeping you or people you care about safe from harm, when the reality is far from it. Relationship stress and conflict are a consequence of this debilitating illness, and not the result of something defective in the person with the illness. In this chapter we give examples of the sorts of conflicts that commonly occur and their consequences. We also raise some difficult ethical issues for which there are no easy answers. The chapter is rounded off with some general guidelines and solutions to the problems you may encounter."
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Chapter 9 in here, was $5 for Kindle – "The Complete Guide to Overcoming OCD: (ebook bundle) (Overcoming Books)" by David Veale, Rob Willson.
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I am wanting to go to therapy to hopefully lower my OCD symptoms but I am terrified to tell anyone else, like a therapist, about my intrusive thoughts. Has anyone else had this experience and if so how did you get over it?
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Hi I kept seeing this app on repeat on TikTok over and over and I thought I give it a shot. I have never been diagnosed with OCD but I know that I have it. I’m a young adult and I found out the first time I had OCD was watching lelelons truth video? I was 14 at the time She had to resist sitting back down in a chair after her having sat down she started having a mental break down when she was told to resist. That’s when I knew. It started with myself going up and down a staircase twice buckling unbuckling my seat belt everytime I’m in the car ect I have always been super anti social but trying my best I can socialize but my mind wants to make it sexual with family and friends ughhhh I hate it because that’s not me when I graduated thoughts of hurting my loved ones corrupted my mind I broke down outside of church one time asking if this was really me or not i question if I’m a good enough friend or person in this world to begin with thinking everyone is judging me so so close how can I make this situation better did I do something wrong I struggle with depression as well not to bad but it’s there I come from a loving family but broken as well i believe in god and my OCD makes me go often he’s not real that stuff isn’t real no one is there to save you the list goes on. Anyway I struggle a lot and I really hope that this will help me because I feel extremely hopeless. Lucky for me I do have the ability to seek therapy and I am excited. The only person I ever tell my thoughts to is God no other human has heard so I’m really really hoping this helps me out if your reading this thank you it means a lot because this is my first time ever admitting all this it’s a lot to take in I know and I hope you are ok and that you have a great night and know that we got this
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- OCD Conqueror
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Hi everyone, I’m Cayla. I’m a mom that’s lived with OCD since childhood, but my breaking point came more recently after having my son. I was consumed by terrifying thoughts—What if I hurt him? What if I did something awful without realizing it? I was so afraid of my own mind that I couldn’t be alone with him. The shame and exhaustion were unbearable, and I convinced myself I was broken. In 2024, I finally sought help. ERP therapy at NOCD was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done, but it saved my life. Even now, I have tough days, but I know I don’t have to be ruled by OCD. When my 12 year old daughter began showing signs of OCD, I felt overwhelmed with guilt. I never wanted her to go through what I had, but I knew what to do. I told her that I have OCD too and made sure she knew it wasn’t her fault—and that she wasn’t alone. One of the hardest parts of this journey was trusting someone else with my daughter’s OCD. I knew how vulnerable it feels to share intrusive thoughts, and I wanted her to feel safe. Her NOCD therapist was able to establish trust and genuine empathy from the start, and that relationship gave her the confidence to face ERP head-on. Seeing her build that trust made me certain she was in the right hands. ERP has helped both of us reclaim our lives, and it is beautiful to see my daughter managing her condition and making visible progress. Parenting with OCD while raising a child with OCD isn’t talked about enough, but I know so many parents are struggling with these same challenges. If you have questions about managing OCD while parenting, helping your child through ERP, or breaking cycles of guilt, drop them below—I’d love to share what I’ve learned. I’ll be answering all of the questions I receive in real-time today 4-5pm ET.
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