- Username
- aholcomb17
- Date posted
- 5y ago
I’m a Christian and I don’t believe in dating or marrying someone of a different faith. I’m not saying your boyfriend will never become a Christian, but he would need to be seriously searching for Jesus for me to consider him. I know it’s hard to pray when we’re afraid we won’t like God’s answer, but I believe you should pray. Even if God’s answer isn’t what you want it to be, I know you’ll be much happier following His will rather than your own. He has your best interest at heart and you can be certain that no matter what His answer is, it will be given with love❤️
See the thing was I prayed to have god take my bf out of my life if he wasn’t the one at the moment like a month ago and we broke up and then I asked for us to get back together and then did same thing Bc we were having hard time and then a week later I asked to get back together and we did but now we’ve been the happiest we’ve ever been and he now is waiting for me to have sex and he prays with me and helps me connect with god when he didnt b4
I noticed people are giving advice here that has nothing to do with ocd! The point is NOT to say wheather one should date a christian or not! You need to ask yourself what YOU believe about God when your OCD is NOT present. Sometimes OCD creates a false God for us that is only in our head, that we dont really believe in. We need to remind ourselves what we truly believe and not make major decitions while having a hard time with ocd.
So Ik we have free will but like why would god put him back into my life if it isn’t for a reason
I think if you can’t accept his beliefs, you should break up. It’s great that he supports yours, and he deserves the same in return.
I keep feeling like I’m letting god down Bc I’m dating an agnostic person but he’ll pray with me and he says maybe one day he’ll become a Christian and he’s offered to go to church with me. I keep feeling like “god wants me to leave” but idk if it’s my ocd. Any tips ?
I'm a big jumbled mess. The hocd has backed down quite a bit to the point where I was starting to have moments of forgetting and my attraction to guys came back. Here's the issue. I'm a Christian and my boyfriend and I are in an unequally yoked relationship. I feel like to any normal person this wouldn't matter but my OCD moved on to this, picking at it viciously. Of course it makes me sad that we don't have the same view about the existence of God, but it's never bothered me THIS much. Also the fact that we have premarital sex is starting to bother me as well when it never did before. It's killing me. I feel like I can't talk to God anymore. I've been obsessing over it all day. What do I do? I don't want to break up with him. He is my other half. I love him so much. I know this is a really sticky subject. Please no anti religious comments.
My bf is agnostic, I am a believer/christian. Obsessing about the fact that if we get married, who knows if it will work out? Do I need to worry about this now? I don’t want to break up but maybe we should?
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