Anonymous

User type: OCD Conqueror

Date posted: 2y

relatable?

does anyone else have ZERO libido or get immense anxiety when their partner tries to initiate intimacy because of SOOCD or ROCD?

blazed

User type: OCD Conqueror

Date posted: 2y

I feel this way whenever a guy shows interest in me bc I get so fixated on not being attracted to men more than anything else. It ruins the whole experience!

Anonymous

User type: OCD Conqueror

Date posted: 2y

@blazed Omg meeee!!!!!

Anonymous

Date posted: 2y

YEP! Can relate 100000%

raccoondoll

Date posted: 2y

if i dont get immediately grossed out or overwhelmed i always end up crying. i've kinda just had to step back from sexuality as a whole

Rachel2727

Date posted: 2y

@erikataylor Right there with ya. You’re not alone

Rachel2727

Date posted: 2y

So can ocd make it harder to find attraction to guys ? I’ve just been going through this thing where like I know a guy is attractive but like I can’t feel it. If that makes sense ?

Rachel2727

Date posted: 2y

@jocd Okay thank you !

Mike_Fed

Date posted: 2y

Whenever my gf kisses me i get a Ball in my throat Does that count?😭

Anonymous

User type: OCD Conqueror

Date posted: 2y

@Michael F definitely

Mike_Fed

Date posted: 2y

@Anonymous Then yea, I’m in the same boat. I’m not doing well currently:(

Anonymous

User type: OCD Conqueror

Date posted: 2y

@Michael F I thought did Erp for this theme and recovered :( I’m sorry this is bothering you again

Mike_Fed

Date posted: 2y

@Anonymous Oh i have, but maybe not well enough

Anonymous

User type: OCD Conqueror

Date posted: 2y

@Michael F Did you recover??

Mike_Fed

Date posted: 2y

@Anonymous I’m not sure tbh 😳😂

Carlos A

Date posted: 2y

and my fear of failing and not being able to please will feed that, which will keep me from the experience even though I want it and I know it will be hard to get out of it unless I have the opportunity to regain trust with a girl who has patience with me

Carlos A

Date posted: 2y

@Carlos A Not the best situation 😮‍💨

Mike_Fed

Date posted: 2y

@Carlos A Ironically that was my original fear not being able to get my thing up and if i didn’t what did that mean?

Mike_Fed

Date posted: 2y

@Carlos A I get it

Carlos A

Date posted: 2y

@Michael F Yeah, It can actually happen to anyone and I think most men have, but when you go through what can be hocd, it's fuel for the fire.

Mike_Fed

Date posted: 2y

@Carlos A Sexuality has always been weird to me tbh. Was always a trigger as young as i remember, idk how old you are but i remember this being triggering early

Carlos A

Date posted: 2y

@Michael F 26 now, like 6 and a half y, but for me now it is a frustrated desire, being afraid of not working

Mike_Fed

Date posted: 2y

@Carlos A I get it. Sorry bro. You got a friend here if needed

Carlos A

Date posted: 2y

@Michael F we have each other on instagram lol yeah me too bro

Honeyshark

User type: OCD Conqueror

Date posted: 2y

Yup more so when I had SOOCD

Honeyshark

User type: OCD Conqueror

Date posted: 2y

@jocd It’s all about ERP and meds for me. ERP worked really well and I’m finding it’s not an issue for me right now.

King Knight

Date posted: 2y

This was me yesterday!! The woman I ‘m talking to was being extra flirty and it was making me SO anxious. I was so turned off because it felt like she was coming on too strong and that since I was turned off, I was going to end up hurting her. It was a terrible cycle of fear in my mind.

TheBeachFrom...