- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 1y
Is anyone…
Is anyone a checker? It’s one of my biggest compulsions. So exhausting. How do you deal with it?
Is anyone a checker? It’s one of my biggest compulsions. So exhausting. How do you deal with it?
Well, this is an answer I would hate to hear, but it's what's been helpful: for something important (are the rental car keys in my pocket and not sitting on the driver seat?) I check ONCE and then move on. And then just deal with the uncertainty that bubbles up. For less important things (did I remember to include XYZ in my email) I do my best to not check at all: if it's something that can be resolved easily after forgetting it, I just do the thing and then convince myself not to check that I did the thing. For important things I do check, but like I said, only once. Something like, did I pack a snack in case my blood sugar gets low? I DEFINITELY need to check, because I'm low on money and wouldn't have enough to get a snack on the road. So it's situationally dependent. But to deal with it? Check once, or do it and don't check, and then just let the anxiety naturally go down on its own.
@reneaerts This is so helpful! I definitely to practice the checking once and move on. When I check once, I feel the urge to check again. And so…the cycle begins
I’ll be driving down the road and I’ll occasionally just hit the lock button on the door to make sure the car is locked. I usually do it several times per trip. I also stare at my alarm and slowly read it to myself to make sure I set the right one and then proceed to check it again after putting my phone down. As far as dealing with it? These checks for me aren’t harmful per se so I’ve never really tried to deal with them.
Just posted about how I check a million times before bed if I accidentally posted on any of my social medias and it’s so frustrating bc right after I check I have to check again & again. Or another thing i do is before I leave my house I check the doors and stove and all candles and outlets time after time… I’ve even gotten in my car and had to go back inside to check it’s so aggravating
I have only pure o - but I am checker lf my mind... i deal with it that I accept danger/fear of unknown and refocus on neutral stimuli
Yes times 5 trillion!Hypervigilance is my name and checking is my game!
I’m having a big OCD relapse and would like to hear anyone’s tips on how to be present and healthily deal with these intrusive thoughts and the “need” to preform compulsions. Thank you!!
OK, this might sound really dumb, but when you guys get intrusive thoughts, do they just come once and then go away? I’ve heard that repeatedly thinking about an intrusive thought is considered ‘checking,’ but it doesn’t feel like I have any control over how many times it comes up in my head. It’s not like I’m trying to check anything—it just keeps showing up, almost like it’s terrorizing me every time. I can’t seem to stop it from looping, stop remembering it, or prevent it from coming up. Every time it does, I feel horrified, and I already know it’s going to horrify me. I don’t think I’m actively trying to see if my feelings have changed, so is this still considered checking? How do other people get an intrusive thought and just move on? Doesn’t it pop up a million times for them too? I always thought that was normal, but now I’m hearing this could be a compulsion, and I feel really confused, scared, and lost. Is this why my OCD feels so extreme? Because I really don’t feel like I can control how many times the thought pops up.
I have pure ocd i think , i always gotta make sure i do certain things like tap things , light switches on n off , shut things few times and re open them till it feels right . Walk in a room go back out and back in out in in till my mind is right Its exhausting
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