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- 1y
I will never be able to forgive myself
Today I remembered something horrible and I don’t think I deserve to live because of it. The details are extremely murky, but I have a friend in a sorority who told me about something that happened to someone in a fraternity which I now know would be considered hazing. At the time, I don’t remember reacting more than the acknowledgment of the situation being bad. I don’t remember asking more questions or details which I should have. I believe this friend heard it from someone else. Now I feel sick to my stomach knowing that I potentially know about a crime and never reported it. I don’t know the person it happened to or the fraternity, or any other details clearly to be able to report. I am not in greek life at all so I don’t know anything that would help me to report. I feel like a horrible person and I’m honestly afraid to ask that friend about it again. At this point I don’t know what to do and I feel disgusted with myself. I can’t stop thinking about it and reading about hazing. I would say this is beyond OCD and actual guilt right? I’m a horrible person and I don’t deserve to live. I was told about this maybe last semester and I just recalled it from memory. The fact that I’m still friends with this girl also makes me feel horrible because she never reported it either and I feel like I specifically remember her telling me to not tell anyone. But I think all of this is on me and my inability to act. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to forgive myself for this. I don’t think this is something I can sit with the uncertainty on.