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Tried everything feelin lost
Meds didn't help at all. ERP not helpin so much. I feel I'm treatment resistent, anxiety/OCD so severe. What to do next?? Feelin lost n depressed..
Meds didn't help at all. ERP not helpin so much. I feel I'm treatment resistent, anxiety/OCD so severe. What to do next?? Feelin lost n depressed..
Hello, I feel like this as well, not much is helping me either and not many understand all the time even tho they say they do, wonder what will help us now x
U have contamination OCD too? May i ask how u cope? Me.. Im very disabled i need help doin most everything its pretty badš
Same. Seems like I'm resistant to meds. It was suggested to try TMS. Not sure what to do.
Yes it's hard, im tryin to keep hopeful. I just wished I'd improved alot more. Thank u for commentš
There is no such things as ātreatment resistantā No matter what fancy phrases people will throw around. Just not the right fit or match of various ingredients that need to come together to help you. Donāt give up, and remember that OCD can latch onto therapy itself. These things take time. Iāve been with NOCD for a long time. I have a lot of mental health issues. I take medicine for one of them. Do I feel significant progress? No. Do I feel real defeated and am I still struggling? Yes. But I definitely am not where I was a few years ago, and when I look back with more perspective I can see that change was happening that I couldnāt see when I was so close up to it. There is always hope, rheee are always options. And itās not going to be āone fixā. One pill or one therapy modality or one therapist. Itās a combination of things. And sometimes foraging those things into just the right care basket will take time, unfortunately.
I do agree it takes time, I've had OCD 30yrs so i know that very well but i do believe everyone is different & people respond differently to things because I've seen it repeatedly over the years. Some improve" while some Do not for different reasons in different people. I know 100% meds didn't help me i tried over a decade of every pill they gave me so I'm trying therapy now and not stopping therapy but it has helped very little. Again, for others therapy helps alot. It just depends, we all struggle differently and can recover differently too. So its important not to judge, keep open mind and we do our best, all of usš
@Stefanie280 - I wasn't judging, and was just attempting to share some hope ... as someone who has also has OCD for well over 30 years and still struggles with a lot that is debilitating. šI respect your experience and view pointš that "some do not improve" and personally, without judgement, I will still have hope that even 1% of hope is still something to hold onto, and that wellness and the time it may take is extremelt relative to a number of factors, resources, and is not that black and white or definitive, and it can be unhealthy (and sometimes depression talking, too) to say that all hope can be lost for some folks with OCD. I truly wish you the best in your journey. š
In ERP, but have made no progress. Iām also on medication for ocd. I actually feel like Iāve resorted back to when I was at my worst. Is this normal? I feel ERP helps everyone and not me. It actually makes me more anxious and want to stop, esp because my ocd is on something physical (imperfections/hair color) Iām not giving up & going to continue through this journey regardless. I long for mental stability š
My theme is suicidal OCD. Iāve been doing ERP since last year November and the overall intensity of my thoughts have not reduced at all. I have these thoughts 24/7 and my life feels like a living hell. Not two minutes goes by throughout the day where Iām not suffering from relentless thoughts. I donāt want to take meds because of the side effects and my insurance is coming to an end so itād be difficult to ween off them by myself. Iām starting to feel so hopeless because Iāve done the toughest of the toughest exposures and Iām not getting better at all. My life is a living hell and I donāt see my condition with OCD getting better anytime sooner.
Hey everyone itās been a while since I posted on here. Honestly, I try to stay off of this app unless I really need advice because I find it triggering at times. But right now Iām feeling pretty down and just would like some hopeful and helpful advice. Has anyone ever felt like theyāre just not capable of getting out of this? Has anyone ever felt like ERP therapy isnāt working or that they just canāt get itās a click? . Iāve been in ERP therapy for over a year just about a year and a half actually and I literally feel so stagnant and stuck still. I show up every week I do my exposures, but my body is in such a chronic fight or fight all the time that it feels almost impossible to apply the tools. Iām super sensitive to begin with and I feel things very deeply and because of that it feels like Iām not gonna be able to ever change. It feels like no matter what I do or experience Iām just gonna always feel it so deeply and itās gonna just rattle me all of the time. Iām honestly so frustrated. Iām tired and Iām overwhelmed. I so badly wanna change these patterns that I have and grow and be out of this OCD spiral, but everything just feels impossible. Iām just wondering if Iām alone here?? Has anyone ever felt this way? Has ERP taken a long time for anyone else or am I the only one that just canāt get my brain to click with it? Any encouraging and helpful words would be greatly appreciated thank you š
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