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My husband and therapist are the only ones that I told my obsessions to. I don’t openly talk about it bc people don’t understand the complexity of ocd so they jump to conclusions and don’t get how our brains work
For me reading other stories helps. It helps because you realize that your thoughts and compulsions don’t represent who you are and you can’t control them. It also helps you realize you’re not alone, even if your obsessions/compulsions seem different from everyone else’s. It is definitely scary, but it helps to share your story. You do not need to be ashamed or embarrassed but it may take time to realize that. When you are ready, feel free to share on here. I’ve seen no judgement and have only seen care and advice. Best of luck.
It has helped me to share my stories with people I trust. They need to be in my inner circle. I don’t hide it anymore. I don’t care what they think, it’s real for me and I’m working through it.
I think this group is a perfect place to talk openly about OCD and not have to deal with the embarrassment you mentioned. It’s completely anonymous and is great..
I talk openly about my OCD usually just when it comes up. After I started talking, it felt nice to just be able to explain (not seeking reassurance, but just explain) my OCD. People looked at me no differently than they do now. If anything, I think they were actually pretty interested to understand a little bit more about what OCD is like. I would recommend taking a really trusted friend and just seeing how you feel with telling them. Even if it just starts with “hey I have this really weird tic” and you never mention the word OCD, it’s good to start!
How open are you all about your ocd? Do you ever tell anyone? Right now everyone at work thinks I’m perfectly happy and that everything in my world is great. When in reality everything is falling apart and I’m depressed. It’s so hard when someone makes a comment like “you’re so perfect” or “you’ve got your life so together” when they don’t know what you’re going through and what mental battles you have to fight literally every minute of every day. This is why I want to tell the people around me, but I’m also worried they won’t understand. Can anyone relate to this?
How do you guys connect with your significant others without scaring them about your ocd? I want to be open but it's hard to know what is too much... thanks
Does anyone have any advice for sharing their obsessions with their significant other? I struggle with relationship and sexuality OCD. My boyfriend knows I have OCD, but we have never discussed it in detail. I think he is trying to respect my boundaries and I am terrified he won’t understand my obsessions and/or will take them personally. As a result I feel like I am hiding this horrible secret, and it is causing me so much anxiety. I want to talk to him about it, but I don’t know how to bring it up in a way that won’t hurt him.
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