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- 7y
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- 7y
My husband and therapist are the only ones that I told my obsessions to. I don’t openly talk about it bc people don’t understand the complexity of ocd so they jump to conclusions and don’t get how our brains work
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- 7y
For me reading other stories helps. It helps because you realize that your thoughts and compulsions don’t represent who you are and you can’t control them. It also helps you realize you’re not alone, even if your obsessions/compulsions seem different from everyone else’s. It is definitely scary, but it helps to share your story. You do not need to be ashamed or embarrassed but it may take time to realize that. When you are ready, feel free to share on here. I’ve seen no judgement and have only seen care and advice. Best of luck.
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- 7y
It has helped me to share my stories with people I trust. They need to be in my inner circle. I don’t hide it anymore. I don’t care what they think, it’s real for me and I’m working through it.
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- 7y
I think this group is a perfect place to talk openly about OCD and not have to deal with the embarrassment you mentioned. It’s completely anonymous and is great..
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- 7y
I talk openly about my OCD usually just when it comes up. After I started talking, it felt nice to just be able to explain (not seeking reassurance, but just explain) my OCD. People looked at me no differently than they do now. If anything, I think they were actually pretty interested to understand a little bit more about what OCD is like. I would recommend taking a really trusted friend and just seeing how you feel with telling them. Even if it just starts with “hey I have this really weird tic” and you never mention the word OCD, it’s good to start!
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- 23w
My biggest is ruminating, i talk and talk and over share with myself and others Like what are some exposures?
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- 16w
How do you tell friends and family about ocd? Like it makes me so anxious and I feel like such a terrible person. A lot of my intrusive thoughts are on my kids. And I hate every single thing that comes into my head.
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- OCD Conqueror
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- 16w
I have been in ERP therapy for my OCD for nearly a year now. Before my diagnosis and doing ERP, I really didn't drive a car for five years and rarely left the house. Now I drive to work, coffee and other outings. Most of the people close in my life don’t really know about my OCD. They do see me doing lots of things I haven't done in the past. I don't really know if I should explain about why this progress happened. I hope they don't think I was just being lazy up until then. They will talk about how someone is “so OCD” because they keep their room clean and really enjoy things neat. Anytime I hear this, I just think that if they hear about my diagnosis of OCD and what it entails they will think I’m crazy. I feel very conflicted about how to go about this, so advice is welcome.
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