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Ayyup that’s been me as well lmao. I would either imagine myself talking to a therapist about it or imagine being a youtuber talking about the struggles of OCD. ??
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It’s so weird isn’t it! But it works so well. I think it’s a compulsion but sometimes it’s needed when you lose yourself to the thoughts. It’s free therapy lol
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Sorry to tell you but it's a compulsion, basically anything you do that calms you down is a compulsion, you are supposed to calm down without doing anything,i know it's pretty tough
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Bang the thing is im saying this because it's true the best way to treat ocd is to avoid doing anything that calms you down,by exposing yourself to the anxiety from obsessions your brain gets desensitized to them,im trying to help by steering people in the right direction, unfortunately the medicine for that fatal illness is erp which means avoiding compulsions as much as you can
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Yeah unfortunately Starboiklem is right. It’s a compulsion that’s been very hard for me to cut out myself but exposing myself to my anxiety has proven me that eventually it does go away and it does get less intense each time. It takes a while and I’m still having my spikes here and there but it does work. The point is not to “shut the thoughts off”. You can’t really do that lol but you will notice as you allow the anxiety to stay that the thoughts will become less frequent until eventually you barely have them anymore because your mind will get bored of them. Once that begins to happen you will also feel less the need to do those compulsions because they won’t feel as necessary anymore. It’s something I’ve been noticing myself for these past few weeks while doing ERP myself.
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Well happy to know I’m not the only one lol, hope it’s not a compulsion because it’s the only thing keeping me sane right now????
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YESSSSS
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I talk to myself as if I’m in therapy or if I’m with a doctor and it helps
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Idc if it’s a compulsion or not, I feel better from it and it’s how I cope. Ocd is such a tiring thing and to hear that low key pisses me off. Nothing else would make it better or make it stop so it’s not like I have a lot of options on how to shut the thoughts off. That’s like saying to someone they have a fatal illness but they can’t take medicine to get better because they have figure out how to not die. That makes 0 sense to me.
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Compulsions worsen your OCD, that’s a fact, but I think if you aren’t in therapy in the moment and you’re slowly losing your mind then it’s important to remind yourself how you truly feel about the intrusive thoughts. It’s not a long time thing though!! Because it is still a compulsion, we need real professionals to help us out
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Two things are happening: I get thoughts that just keep looping. They almost feel like song stuck in my head. Also, I’ll imagine something and I feel my stomach drop. Then as the seconds go by I keep getting fragments of the this thought but with different details. For example, it’s kinda like how a “vision” is portrayed. I’ll get a glimpse of the thought and then it’ll rapidly expand into something worse every few seconds. I don’t know if I’m causing this or if it’s just an automatic thing like any other intrusive thought. It feels unavoidable, idk if this is a compulsion or if it’s just another manifestation of an intrusive thought. Apart from that remembering an intrusive thought triggers the full thought again and then it just keeps looping or expanding. I don’t know how to stop any of this. Help?
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I cannot for the life of me stop ruminating or checking how I feel about thoughts or focusing on thoughts or creating more thoughts. I feel like I’m losing my mind. I want to scream. I try not to ruminate about the thoughts, but trying not to just makes me think about them more. I try not to check, but somehow, I still check. I want to let a thought sit in the background, but the more I try not to focus on it, the more I end up focusing on it. I don’t want the thought to expand because that feels like engaging with it, but I can’t just stop it from expanding. It feels impossible. People keep saying I’m in control of my compulsions, and maybe that’s true for the physical ones. But when it comes to the mental compulsions, I swear I have no control. It feels like I’m missing something that everyone else seems to have, like there’s some tool they’re using that I don’t have. Controlling mental compulsions has never felt possible for me. I’m starting to fear them. And every time someone says I’m in control and can just choose not to do them, I end up beating myself up even more when they happen. Or when I *choose* I guess. I don’t know anymore. If this is my fault, if I’m responsible for this, then what does that make me? I feel like a monster. I am at my wits’ end. How am I supposed to control mental compulsions when it feels like they control me? I freak out when they happen. They don’t bring me relief, they just make me panic. I want it to stop so bad.
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i’ve been dealing with this “thing” since i was 15. (i’m 23 now) if i have a bad memory that i have done when i was really young or just an intrusive thought i feel like i need to tell my mom or boyfriend. it’s been on and off ever since but since January hit it’s been an everyday thing about the littlest things. mostly about my relationship. an example is i was talking to someone random at my job and we were talking about taxes and when im in deep thought or just thinking i do a thing where i bite my lip (not in the sexual way) and i had a thought when it happened “was that sexual?” and i felt like i did something wrong and i went for a while thinking that until i told my boyfriend about it. or like my ex’s face has popped up in my head in the most inappropriate times and i feel the need that i have to tell him. (my ex was not a good person) i feel like im a prisoner in my head everyday, trying to justify thoughts or remind myself that its just a thought. i didnt know that this was or could be a form of ocd. it runs in my family but i’ve just never considered it being this. i always called it anxiety or depression but i always felt like it is more than that.
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