- User type
- OCD Conqueror
- Date posted
- 1y
rumination
any tips on how to stop ruminating would be greatly appreciated !!!
any tips on how to stop ruminating would be greatly appreciated !!!
Google grounding techniques, they're like a mindful distraction. There's also things like labeling the ruminating and telling yourself "ok I'm ruminating." You can also look into cognitive defusion techniques https://www.treatmyocd.com/blog/cognitive-defusion-and-ocd-techniques-that-are-easy-to-try and practicing acceptance of uncertainty
@A23 it’s not even an uncertainty thing. it’s like continuously thinking about previous thoughts i’ve had. OR having a thought and then questioning it
@kodyisland I've yet to implement a consistent meditation practice, but meditation is essentially practicing letting thoughts come and go. I just googled a bit to fact check myself on the science and found this "Meditation and yoga have been shown to reduce anxiety, depression and stress, and to improve quality of life (Gotink et al. 2015; Lin et al. 2011)"
@kodyisland A basic strategy tho is to catch yourself when ruminating and then disengage. I've had weeks or even months where this was effective, but its not always easy
@A23 i find it’s easy for me to catch it but i don’t really know how to disengage from if
@kodyisland This might be something better to explore in therapy, but I could share some other things in hopes of it helping. There's a compulsion called mental reviewing, it's rumination pretty much. You could tell yourself "response prevention" messages like "that was the past, time to live in the present" When you're questioning your thoughts, an OCD therapist might ask what exactly you're questioning and see if you have a core fear associated with these thoughts. Its common for OCD to be about character or morality for instance, so someone could question a thought like "gosh, why did I have that thought? Am I a bad person?" But that's just one example, it can vary a lot. Also there's spiraling, so when ruminating it's easy to spiral into doubt, negativity, etc. The disengagement will take practice, can't say I'm there yet myself but therapy and different techniques can help
@A23 awesome thank you i’ll give it a try. i’m at the very beginning of my ERP journey so i haven’t gotten many tricks yet
@kodyisland Best of luck! Hope to progress alongside with you 😁
Distractions are good. I find that doing something new holds your attention better.
What's a piece of advice you give when someone has constantly intrusive thoughts and ruminations that won't stop? Interested to see what you tell others.....more on this when I see some replies!!!
I have really started to take control of my compulsions and im starting to string together better days! Still not great days or even good, but they are better!!! I have controlled my outward compulsions (googling, research, reassurance, checking) the past couple of days and felt the positive impact of that. But unfortunately, I am realizing that the rumination is still constant. My sexuality and relationship are the only two things constantly on my brain, and if they aren’t I freak out and wonder why im not thinking about them! Anyone have any advice on how to deal with the rumination. Sometimes I don’t even notice im doing it, but it’s taking up 90% of my day. Once I start to tackle this I think I may make some real big progress! Hope everyone is fighting today! ❤️
I ruminated too much this morning and got distressing mental images (and confirmation) which sent me spiraling again. How do I stop thinking about this and how do I get back to myself? I feel destroyed.
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