I feel so alone and anxious

@MemoryHoarder But i dont ever wanna message men or minors in any explicit way... im so so so scared of minors going on nsfw servers and lying about their age... im going through every previous convo on discord to make sure i didnt... and im honestly so so scared because i cant see their ages or they deleted their accounts 😭

@MemoryHoarder There was a verification system where you had to take a selfie with your ID at the time, so i would only talk to verified women... that was two years ago... im so scared about whether or not minors got passed the verification system...

@Givenup - If they were lying and saying they were an adult and never told you anything otherwise, it wasn’t your fault!

@MemoryHoarder But idk if they were lying or not... thats whats scaring me... ive only talked to verified women as far as i know... and i get so scared about minors online lying about their age, and it makes me ruminate on whether or not this happened to me... Ive seen so many horror stories of minors lying about their age and it just terrifies me to no end...

@MemoryHoarder This one girl who was verified said that she had "school"... i use the word "college" when i chat, so the fact she said "school" REALLY worries me... but she was verified when i talked to her, and she deleted her discord... so ive been scared about that...

@Givenup - Yeah I understand, I worry about a lot of things that people don’t understand and are hard to explain. The only thing I can say is if people are lying, they are in the wrong not you

@MemoryHoarder She was verified so she had to present her ID and take a selfie next to the ID... so i assumed she was okay... but then she said the word "school" and it got me concerned...

@Givenup - Could’ve been talking about college or 18 years old in high school

@MemoryHoarder True... i dont have reasons to doubt most. The ones I found suspicious were those who were unverified or suddenly left the server... this one girl gave me her birthday, so that wasnt that suspicious... but then when i asked this one girl what date she was born on, she just said "13😭" before reiterating that she was 18 later on and many times beforehand... im just honestly so scared and anxious rn...

@MemoryHoarder Hope i havent upset you...

@Givenup - No didn’t upset me at all, don’t worry, about upsetting me haha. I hope you feel better!

@MemoryHoarder Im just feeling so upset and triggered and stressed...

@Givenup - Ocd sucks and it’s hard to explain to people who haven’t experienced it. You got this!

@MemoryHoarder What do you think about the last situation...? i dont have reasons to doubt most. The ones I found suspicious were those who were unverified or suddenly left the server... this one girl gave me her birthday, so that wasnt that suspicious... but then when i asked this one girl what date she was born on, she just said "13😭" before reiterating that she was 18 later on and many times beforehand... im just honestly so scared and anxious rn...

@Givenup - I don’t have any thoughts on that, sorry!

@MemoryHoarder Do you think she was lying about her age?? 😞😞😞

@Givenup - It’s really hard to have an opinion without all the context and what you talked about,

@MemoryHoarder I was trying to find out her age on the nsfw server before anything happened... i was trying to ask which date she was born on, and she just said the number "13😭" before reiterating she was 18 after a couple minutes... she was saying she was 18 before but i wanted to make sure.

@Givenup - I dunno, if you asked her the date she was born and she said 13, may have just been saying that’s the date of her bday

@MemoryHoarder I didnt do anything with her. I only did stuff with women that were verified... i only want to be with women who are verified to be 18+...

@MemoryHoarder I feel so so alone... genuinely alone and broken...

@Givenup - I understand, therapy really helped me get passed some similar feelings for me

@Givenup I used “school” when I was in college.

@needhealing That girl was verified so she was 18+, one girl gave me her birthday, so that wasnt that suspicious... but then when i asked this one girl what date she was born on, she just said "13😭" before reiterating that she was 18 later on and many times beforehand... im just honestly so scared and anxious rn... idk if they were lying or not... thats whats scaring me... ive only talked to verified women as far as i know... and i get so scared about minors online lying about their age, and it makes me ruminate on whether or not this happened to me... Ive seen so many horror stories of minors lying about their age and it just terrifies me to no end...