- Date posted
- 1y
I hate how stigmatized HOCD is.
I feel like I can't talk about it with anyone to not lead them into thinking I'm gay in denial or that I'm homophobic whereas none of that is true. I often see OCD therapists talking about HOCD symptoms online and they want to make sure they'll use proper wording to not give off the impression that it's rooted in homophobia or denial somehow to avoid backlash from people, but I think some of them end up not telling it like it is. They say people with HOCD do know what their sexual orientation is and are not actually attracted to the same sex, but why do they feel like they do? If they knew 100% that they're not attracted, then this wouldn't be an issue. It's the same thing with POCD. The thoughts, feelings and sensations feel incredibly real to the person, yet they're not attracted to children. How do they know?