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ROCD or losing feelings?
How am I supposed to know if my thoughts and feelings are real and I should take them as a serious sign that I’m losing feelings? I’m so lost and confused and I’m trying to hang on to this relationship but what if I’m lying to myself and blinding myself to the truth I don’t want to hear. I’m so confused by all these overly critical and negative thoughts about my partner. I wish they would all go away, but there are also some things that genuinely bug me and I don’t know what to do about that. It’s nothing inherently bad, I think he’s just weird sometimes in different ways and I don’t want that to get to stop me from making this work. I’m so just mentally exhausted and I feel defeated.