Sexual ocd [TMI]

Hey , I feel like I’m alone with getting intrusive and unwanted thoughts during sex / mast3rbation and when I’m finishing and it makes me feel disgusted and that I’m a disgusting person and that I agree with the thoughts I get and I get really upset after and guilty and regret doing it Please can someone tell me if they experience things like this and if it’s not just me It’s something I’ve been really struggling with but I try not to let it get in the way of me having a sex life

Username: Gavin44Gavin44

Date posted: 16w ago

I agree completely. And after I do rituals to make myself feel better. You’re not alone and we need to push through. It’s especially hard because sex and masturbating is when you feel vulnerable and these unwanted thoughts will push their way in while you’re finishing up your business even though you don’t want to think it. But remember, your brain is the asshole here, and YOU aren’t!

Username: ambermayxambermayx

Date posted: 16w ago

@Gavin44 thankyou for commenting , I struggle so bad with this and feel so alone and it leads me to sh because I feel weird

Username: Romish89Romish89

Date posted: 16w ago

I think this is just the ocd in short. Def check with dr

Username: ambermayxambermayx

Date posted: 16w ago

@Romish89 just something I feel like I couldn’t tell a professional because I feel really weird

Username: FloralEnvoyFloralEnvoy

Date posted: 13w ago

@ambermayx You can always tell a professional, they are paid to hear the weirdest, deepest darkest skeletons in someone's closet. Trust me you won't be judged for wanting a better orgasm, or to just engage in the deed without crippling guilt.

Username: ambermayxambermayx

Date posted: 12w ago

@FloralEnvoy yea it’s just scary as I’ve never said it out loud to anyone

Username: Anonynmous19Anonynmous19

Date posted: 9w ago

Sorry for TMI Sucks having intrusive thoughts during sexual activity. It makes me feel guilty and associates the act to the thoughts. As part of ERP i have to face it. Sometimes i have to stop and pause as a compulsion but still engage and ocd makes me feel guilty if i dont stop. I did stop and said mentally its ocd stop but my hand was still in a sexual position making contact with body. I know my intention was to avoid the thought and its unwanted.ocd makes me feel guilty because of my hand positioning touching a specific body part regarding the activity even though the thought distressed me and i mentally said stop its ocd if i recall properly. I have a hard time with sexual activiry because of intrusive thoughts. Sorry for TMI. Thanks for letting me share in a safe space for other adults sharing the struggle

Username: Anonynmous19Anonynmous19

Date posted: 9w ago

@Anonynmous19 I know the thoughts are ocd themed and is ocd. I know i stopped during thebsexual encounter also ocd. But ocd makes me feel guilty because even though i stopped and tried to mentally challenge the thought my hand was still placed on the body parts so ocd makes me feel guilty about thatbor attribute it to mean something but i know thats irrelevant and just ocd trying to make a false alarm and intrusive association that iisnt true. It shouldnt matter my hand placing. Its my heart and intentions that matter

Username: Anonynmous19Anonynmous19

Date posted: 9w ago

Hang in there. I had the same situation today Sorry for TMI Sucks having intrusive thoughts during sexual activity. It makes me feel guilty and associates the act to the thoughts. As part of ERP i have to face it. Sometimes i have to stop and pause as a compulsion but still engage and ocd makes me feel guilty if i dont stop. I did stop and said mentally its ocd stop but my hand was still in a sexual position making contact with body. I know my intention was to avoid the thought and its unwanted.ocd makes me feel guilty because of my hand positioning touching a specific body part regarding the activity even though the thought distressed me and i mentally said stop its ocd if i recall properly. I have a hard time with sexual activiry because of intrusive thoughts. Sorry for TMI. Thanks for letting me share in a safe space for other adults sharing the struggle. I know my intentions were to imagine my wife and be intimate with myself. I know i stopped to recollect myself and than continue activity. Ocd makes me feel guilty because i kept connected to the body in a sexual way but it shouldnt matter if my hand was places on a body part its no different than if i continued activity without stopping what matters is my intention and its ocd and i was trying to recollect. Im sure You can relate. Hang in there. Its certainly ocd in both our cases. Hope my experience helps and sorry for seeiking reassurance or making it about me. Take care. Best of wishes

Username: zg23

Date posted: 5y ago

Need some advice here as I feel like such a sick twisted person..I feel like I may have sexual intrusive thoughts ocd but sometimes I think it’s just me and my twisted brain- intrusive thoughts about my family members has turned into pedophilia ocd and what makes it worse is that I work with children. Lately I’ve been seeing sexual intrusive images of me sexually abusing young children normally male, and I am obviously distressed by them and I would never act on that but it makes me feel like I would actually do that cause of the feeling I would get and it’s all so confusing and scary cause I would never do that to a child. Please someone help that has maybe been through a similar experience?

Username: perezmt

Date posted: 2y ago

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Username: Racheljustine

Date posted: 2y ago

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