Is it normal/ok to think your partner is weird? I keep thinking it and I keep panicking and feeling like I don’t like him and need to leave. I’m starting to worry that maybe he’s just too weird, or maybe a “little off” and crazy. It’s so frustrating.
i think like this all day, everyday. i feel like it’s a self sabotaging technique because i feel like i dont “deserve” her so i nitpick every single thing about my relationship and try and make it look negative when it’s not
@idkkkkkkk Just remember it’s the OCD and not you, don’t dwell on it accept it and laugh 💪
Just accept that it’s the OCD talking, not you!
@Yido99 But I am currently undiagnosed so there is so much doubt about whether it is OCD. And it’s frustrating because in one sense he is weird and different, but I so badly don’t want it to bug me.
@Anonymous_confessions i am also undiagnosed too, the doubt and shame is UNREAL
It’s totally normal! Right now I’m struggling with something similar, and I have diagnosed OCD. It’s just your thoughts playing games with you, and even if it’s not, we’re all a little weird at the end of the day(:
Ocd really bad today because last night my bf was doing things I found cringey and I worry that means I don’t like him and I also had the thought “maybe you’ve outgrown him” and it felt true
It has completely switched to me being scared I don’t want to be with him. I’ve been struggling for days. I’ve been googling stuff all day too. And then my friend asked me “do you actually like him?” And it’s been stuck in my head. And then I answered yes but my head was like do you really though? Can it really convince you that you don’t and that you’re lying to yourself? And can you feel like you’re lying to them about it all? It makes me feel sick. And then my friend said “I think you’re just second guessing things because you’ve never been in a healthy relationship” my mind keeps going to “what if you really are not mean to be together? You know deep down. What if you’re having all these thoughts because you just aren’t mean to be?” And I don’t have like insane butterflies or infatuation with him like I did my previous partners, but they were so abusive and toxic. Im so terrified my mind will convince me to break up with him and I don’t want to 😞
Hello, im Non binary [They/Them] and my boyfriend [I will call him V] goes by He/Him ❤️ ive never been diagnosed with OCD, but ive done my research and it makes the most sense with what i feel Ok, so im a young adult and so is my boyfriend. the only types of relationships ive been in are either abusive, toxic, or where im very anxious all of the time. With my boyfriend now, we have argued like every couple does, but i dont feel those anxious things i did with my ex, and it makes me anxious i dont love him somehow. i dont feel that heavy feeling in my chest or that feeling i got in my head when i think of my boyfriend V. i know i love V, but i get scared that since i dont get those intense feelings, that i dont. i get this soft feeling instead with him, and feel this calmness im not used to. is this normal? of course he makes me blush too, giggle, etc. but i still get scared i dont love him somehow. please help 🙏 sometimes these thoughts escalate, and it makes me really upset bc i really love my boyfriend, and want us to last a really long time (we've known eachother 8 years, but started dating almost a year ago) bc he makes me so happy, but im scared. ive started to say "If i dont love him, ill fall back in love with him. if i do love him, my love for him will continue to grow" but even that makes me anxious. im scared and love my boyfriend so much, but dont want it to be fake and hurt his feelings. is this normal?
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