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Did erp work for you guys
Did erp work for you guys
100%, it helped me after a few months, I didn’t realize how bad I had gotten until I overcame my ocd. I was anxious and shaking 24/7, erp helped me to face my fears and overcome them, which is something I never thought I could do. I recently have also been put on medication and it was a GAME CHANGER. But also remember everyone’s brain is wired differently. You get to decide how you want to deal with your ocd!
I’m 3 months in and it has helped me! I do ERP and CBT. Both know about it. ERP helps me face the OCD and both therapist help me get under the reasoning. Unfortunately, work has been very stressful this last month and a half so we are kinda taking steps back to help manage that and how it manifest. But ERP is helpful, especially with changing themes. You find out under all those is the same self values you may be ignoring or infringing upon
What do you mean by you get to decide how you want to deal with ocd ?
Yes! I would recommend it. I found a therapist here and she was excellent Although it was tough learning how to face my fears , it was extremely helpful I use ERP independently now
@Salstar How Long did it take you to face it ?
You do it at your own pace everyone is different I had 2 lots of therapy The first lot was about 10 sessions . A combination of 90 mins 60 mins and 30 mins The second set was about 8 sessions which was a combination of 60 minutes and 30minutes. Money well spent
Wow , but it worked for I guess pretty easily .
Yep
Yes! But not the first time - 20 years ago, I wasn't ready to face my fears and my therapist wasn't competent. Many years later I did ERP online, helped me immensely.
How did you complete Erp online if you don't mind me asking?
@Quieter2024 I had daily connection with my therapist by emails. We made a plan together for my exposures. To me it was easier to work with the exposures on my own this way - I didn't feel the pressure to be brave, I could walkbin my own pace. Don't know if this answer your question...
@Estrid No that makes sense, thanks for replying :)
@Quieter2024 😊👍
I'm just laying here avoiding being an adult and wondering if during ERP the therapists are mean. Like, is it a "tough love" type of situation? That makes me anxious
Anyone else feel like they just sit there during sessions? Like I can’t wait for it to be over so I don’t have to do this twice a week anymore. I think I’m putting in effort but sometimes feels like a huge waste of time and I’m not making progress but maybe that’s just my ocd?
I keep asking questions about ERP because I'm trying to convince myself that it will actually work for R/E OCD. In one of the NOCD youtube videos, the analogy was "well people live with uncertainty all the time - they keep driving a car even if it can crash" etc. Yes, but driving a car is an uncertainty that people accept because it doesn't directly correlate to their IDENTITY, CHARACTER, and INTEGRITY. So to me that's an apples and oranges comparison. So yes I believe ERP can work (or I've heard) BUT can it work in the "right way" going forward. What I mean by that is do you come out of it 1) not having to accept a dogma / delusion? 2) do you keep your integrity and identity in tact or have to lie to yourself to move on from the real event? 3) is it TRUE peace of mind or just delusion? If it's not, if I have to sacrifice my integrity and identity to move on, to me that's not a genuine and sustainable solution it's just a bandaid. I hope someone who's done ERP can convince me otherwise because it'd be nice to move on from OCD
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