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Disclosing OCD to Employer?
I recently received my OCD diagnosis and am wondering if folks have disclosed this to their employer. Any tips or watch outs? I’m in a very corporate / competitive environment.
I recently received my OCD diagnosis and am wondering if folks have disclosed this to their employer. Any tips or watch outs? I’m in a very corporate / competitive environment.
I don’t see any reason to disclose your HIPPA information to any employer.
Why do you feel like disclosing it?
@r.m.1 I guess I’m wondering if it effects my work sometimes should I be upfront so it doesn’t come back to bite me in a review or something down the road 🤷🏼♂️
@Anonymous You know your bosses and co workers so I think you know what is best for you specifically. I personally wouldn’t want other people to look down upon me for not understanding or feel the need to change my workload compared to my co-workers. Every person, regardless of having OCD or not has inconsistent motivation and performance at work. If you make a big deal out of it, then they could to. Just my thoughts
Personally I would not disclose , it is a personal matter. On one hand there is ADA in the USA on the other hand employers can pick and choose who works for them , most states are “ at will “. So only the most blatant proven discrimination might help a person keep their job if it can be proven after hiring and paying for an attorney.
No one at My works now about my ocd I don't see any reason to tell them
I had a really bad OCD flare up that was affecting my productivity, so I wound up telling my boss about my diagnosis when she asked what was up. It actually wound up taking some of the pressure off of that particular episode, and turned out really helpful!
I honestly tell everyone. I am part of the mental health group at work and they actually asked me to come speak on their panel about my experience with OCD. I have also feared about sharing but I want to change how we handle ourselves at work. We are more than just the work we are doing. We are humans with problems. I try to be open with it because I hope it can help at least one other person. I totally get not wanting to share. It really isn’t anyone’s business. But I’ve shared and many people have come to me thanking me for speaking out.
Has anyone experienced their reputation affected or misunderstood because of a societally taboo OCD theme? Others catching wind of your obsessions and misinterpreting it, assuming the worst? I’m intentionally keeping it vague because I don’t want my specific situation to get reassured, but it’s been a real tough pill to swallow knowing that people close to me (and anyone else they might talk to) think of me differently. I’m unwilling to share about my OCD because I feel pretty confident it will be taken as an excuse or denial, and feels compulsive and reassurance seeking. Let me know if anyone here has experienced anything like it, how they handled it, exposures you did.
For those of you in relationships with ROCD, do your partners know of your diagnosis. I am new to treatment and new to this avenue of mental health. I am generally pretty open and honest with my partner about things but the dark side of my mind I keep hidden. I’m scared to tell him about this if I’m diagnosed. And I’m scared that if I’m diagnosed and something real does go south in the relationship then my diagnosis will be used against me.
I posted the other day about my subtype of staring ocd but I’m supposed to start a new job next week. I work in wellness/beauty and will be seeing people half naked. It doesn’t trigger me as I’m treating clients but only when I’m not supposed to be looking (like normal interactions). It happens when people wear very revealing clothes or are super curvy and my eye goes to that area. It also happens when people are adjusting themselves and my eye goes to their hands. It’s very embarrassing and I quit my last job because of this and I don’t want to make more people feel uncomfortable. It left me very depressed and hopeless. It’s such a frustrating type of ocd to deal with because it impacts me financially and socially. I just want to feel okay. Anyways, I’m writing this because I’m wondering if I should share with my new employer about this issue so I don’t weird anyone out or keep it to myself? I’m not sure what to do. I need money as I have a mortgage and two kids and would like to help my husband. I’m currently on Zoloft 50mg, have done therapy but this is such a hard type to treat as it’s not the cleaning type. I know I’m not supposed to ask for advice about what to do but I need to know so I can make a decision and not get cold feet.
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