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- 1y
Your opinion?
I’m going over an event that happened almost two years ago and it’s making me wonder if I had bad intentions/was disloyal. I was buying a car and the dealer was an attractive guy. I was there with my mom and my sister, but I remember avoiding bringing up my boyfriend in conversation with him. When my mom brought him up I noticed and remember feeling a certain way about it like I didn’t want her to. I think after she brought him up I wondered why I hadn’t wanted to, and I didn’t understand since I never would have actually wanted to be with this man and I had considered myself a very loyal partner. I wonder if I avoided bringing it up just bc I wanted to appear attractive, or make him into me (he had come accross flirty) but I didn’t actually want him. Maybe it was bc I liked the flattery? Is this normal? Has anyone else in a committed relationship caught yourself not wanting to bring up ur partner since you liked the attention or was I disloyal in this situation? It goes against my values so much and I have no idea why I would have done that in the moment.