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- Chronicoverthinker
- Date posted
- 9w ago
Do I have ROCD or is my partner the wrong choice for me?
ROCD
I can’t tell if I have ROCD or if he’s the wrong person for me does anyone have any tips on how to know
ROCD
I can’t tell if I have ROCD or if he’s the wrong person for me does anyone have any tips on how to know
There's no such thing as the right person, only the wrong person. If that person doesn't align with your values, they're the wrong person. Ultimately, it is up to you whether or not you choose to be with that person.
@Anonymous Thank you. I really do think I love him we have similar life goals and connect on a deeper level he understands me like no other I just get nitpicky about silly things we don’t have in common or disagree on and imagine what my relationship would be like with someone who does have those things in common with me
What if you decided that you didn’t need to decide right now? Like “hmm, maybe he is the wrong or right person. Who knows? But I have time to figure it out. I think I’ll go buy a smoothie instead of worrying about this”
@Anonymous Idk why I said smoothie but maybe it’s fate. Get yourself an OCD conquering smoothie!
Can’t tell if I’m experiencing ROCD or if I’m genuinely unhappy in my relationship, can anyone offer some guidance to help me figure it out? Or is that against the rules?? I’m not looking to be told what to do or to justify my emotions, simply just trying to figure out what I’m feeling
How am I to know whether I have ROCD or if I should leave. I keep having critical and negative thoughts about everything my partner says and does and the way he looks and acts and his personality: literally everything! But I know he’s not the problem, I am, because he’s not toxic or bad. So how do I know if it’s ROCD or if Im trying to force myself to like the wrong person? I’m so lost and confused. He’s such an amazing person and I don’t want to hurt him. I just wish these thoughts would go away and I could see him through rose coloured glasses. But I’m feeling so discouraged and getting tired of trying.
How do you know if its rocd or not? Or if you’re just finding excuses for being a terrible person
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